so I guess this is FAQ on why I'm here. I mean, I realize it's a place mostly for men, with few exceptions.

Here's my deal -while I love being married and love my husband, the thing is I miss the excitement of meeting a new guy, discovering what he's into, if he finds me hot and so forth. I have absolutely no intention of doing anything that puts my marriage in jeopardy, although I find doing so extremely hot and fantasize about it :)

so, I find the lovely, horny perverts here a great way to scratch that particular itch. At lease some of you guys find someone intelligent to chat and discuss sex and share fantasies with a fun way to spend time. I love the freedom internet anonymity gives me to be open, to the point of disclosing vulnerabilities which I'd never do with a man I just met or dating. I cherish the sheer lust that comes through some of the messages I get. Hubby is ok with this in general because it's obviously not real, and he gets home to a very horny wife who's willing to indulge in his fetishes, which are many, as long as she gets banged good (and he's great at delivering it :)

Obviously not everyone is to my taste (and vice versa of course). Overtime I learned what to do to screen effectively - my nick is not "hot wife come and get it 123" for a reason, I am very clear about my boundaries, and if I chat I never indicate my gender so that only those patient enough to check people's profiles (And I guess take a quick look at the blogs) bother with me. I think ruling out younger guys has helped a lot too, I no longer get the "boobs???? boobs!!!!" messages :)

cheers

a

Since most of the guys I talked with here complain about their wives/gf's not taking their cock, I thought it was worth sharing a bit.

First, you need to realize this is something we do for your pleasure. Yes I understand most of you like to eat pussy, but you get the fuck my wet pussy right after too, right? Whereas, if you cum, that's it for the night -or at least for a bit!

Its also important to appreciate is that if you didn't have a shower, that close things will not necessarily smell good, and personally that's a big turn off.

The other thing is the view is not that exciting, unless you have some seriously artistic crotch-hair design that I'd view with interest for a while. It's mostly your crotch getting close and away, close and away :) This really is one area a big cock helps a lot - then I can spend most of my time sucking the head but I'm not glued to his belly to do so. That's actually a big thing, I like to be able to look at him without hurting my neck or my eyes or something. One thing that helps is to have a mirror nearby that I can watch him and see if he's having fun. and ok, I think it's hot to see myself sucking cock too :)

Taking a facial is a little like that too. First, it is difficult to see cum shoot right at you and not to turn your head away.I can't manage to keep my eyes open, although hubby says I do a good job of keeping a smile and keeping my head straight. After the first couple shots usually the pressure is less and I manage to open my eyes. Cum in mouth is way easier. Taste doesn't both me usually. Stlll, it does that a little acting skills to make him feel happy, to know that I'm happy that he has orgasmed and I take his cum with pleasure. The instinct is to close your eyes or spit etc, and you need to overcome that.

All those disclaimes said, I do enjoy giving a good blowjob. In part there's that satisfaction of doing a good job and making your partners happy. And a happy partner is a stress free partner that will go on to satisfy you the next time and the time after that and so on, so the ROI is pretty good!

Seriously, I'm curious. I understand no two people have the exact same kinks/preferences, and that women usually do not have the same sex drive as men. Moreover, once kids get in the picture everything changes, I get that too.

But overall, most of the men I communicate with here are married and the sex they get at home is too vanilla, or not frequent enough. I'm not advocating open marriage or anything, but it almost feels like we are punishing you guys with this monogamy thing, which seems to be actually working quite fine in other aspects? Or is it just a self selection, if you're not frustrated you're not creating accounts in porn sites anyway?

Or, is it simply a result of a long relationship? Like, whatever kink your wife doesn't like to do develops into fantasy, more and more an obsession? So if I am not into foot fetish, does that make it more likely that over time hubby will crave getting a footjob etc? If so, well then this is unfiaxable right?

Anyway, mostly just ruminating here, feel free to drop a comment and say what you think :)

I guess this is more like a part of a FAQ: I originally put a bunch of cock pics in my favs to tease hubby when I was creating the profile (Hi honey!). More accumulated thanks to a few people I talked with here, who have an exhibitionist streak, and some actually did a few shots based on my requests which was absolutely awesome.

Anyway, what I want to say is that of course I do enjoy looking at eye candy, ie a naked man with a hot body; And It's more fun to see a hard cock too, but I'm not  obssessed with it the way some of you guys are into breasts or legs etc. I'll confess it's hot to watch a guy orgasm, but I like the see not just his cock, rather his entire body and yeah that includes his face and expression too which is a bit rare in porn sadly. Oh and,  gifs really do it nicely for me, they can be surprisingly hot :)

I was asked recently to write about this, and it's a common question anyways so good to have it as a FAQ I guess. I'm sorry to say I have no bi tendencies whatsoever. I know, I know, it's every guys dream to have to hotties make out as he fucks them etc and I emphatize, but what can I say I only like cocks :) I mean I tend to need a real live dick to orgasm in the first place, pussy just doesn't do it for me :)

oh I did kiss a girl in college, no sparks whatsoever. Smelled nicer I guess.

the funny thing is most guys say yeah but that's ok girls are nice surely you could make out with one just to make your man happy. Things is that is a bit like asking a strictly hetero guy make out with another man because he's a hunk (and yes I'm sure there are a gazillion pervs here who'd love to do just that please don't bombard me with complaints :). To me, there's nothing wrong with that, but a straight guy a) would have no interest, b) maybe be a little jealous about the other guys body, cock, etc.

On that note I must say actually sometimes gay porn is easier to watch. Because most porn is all about the girl with a few  bodiless cocks included... and you know, I'm interested in watching the guy not the girl... actually seeing the cock is not that important, although I do like a nice cumshot, men are so festive when they orgasm :)

if you're bi, gay, lesbian, trans (there's now a Q mentioned I dont know what that is?), no disrespect intended, I'm happy if you enjoy a good sex life in anyway you like. Any questions comments etc I'd be happy to talk/answer etc. It's just not my thing :)

seriously. as aretha said, you gotta be a do it right all night man :) well ok not all night, but 15 minutes nonstop would be great. At this point I want to give a big kuddos to my dear husband who has been quite awesome last few months, pitching a perfect game (every time!)

now I dont know how men build sexual stamina, although I assume practice would help, and I am sure it'd be more productive than worrying about your size or buying those funny pumps I guess, although maybe the point of the pumps isnt increasing size but it feels like getting head? anyway, yeah all I'm saying is find the position, exercise, sexercise, whatever and give her good long poundings and you'll see many of your marriage problems will just melt away!

yet another controversial topic I guess :) well, hubby and I enjoy anal sex a few times a year. To be honest I'm not a big fan - it literally is a pain in the ass, though with enough KY not that big a pain.Thing is it's not that bad during -assuming we're talking about a normal sized cock, but later on it can get bit painful, hard to move or sit. I could say more things but I dont want to turn off my few readers even more so I'll shut up. Enough to say that I gave this a try once in college and decided it wasnt worth it. And when hubby asked I said no and closed the door on it and I thought that was that.

Funny, thing, and a big reason why actually keep coming back to imagefap: ~2 years ago I was messaging back and forth with a couple horny guys who were totally into asses. Anyway, at some point I realized that they werent necesseraly obssessed with it because it was way better than pussy.  they  wanted it mostly because normaliy they couldn't get any (with their gf's and wives, that is) and it had developed into an obsession with this, er, forbidden fruit so to speak.

So anyway i considered this quite a while. I didn't think hubby would divorce me cause I didnt let him fuck me in the ass of course. But I worried he'd get frustrated that he couldnt get what obviously many other men did (and if you watch porn a bit too much you tend to think absolutely everyone except you is getting pornstar action every night :), or worse he'd simply go to a prostitute to get what I didn't give.

Therefore, after much thought I decided I should let him have his way with me. The first time I told him was quite hilarious :) We were in a fancy restaurant, all dressed up, romantic candles and wine and everything and I lean into him, all elegant and lady like, and say "I want to get fucked in the ass tonight". He dropped his fork and was totaly "wait what????" :D

Anyway, he did get his way with me, and yes it was uncomfortable the next day (I had to take the day off with some made up excuse). And no I cant say it was extremely enjoyable, although he clearly very much enjoyed it and was very appreciative for a while after. My current MO is to do it once every few months (usually I actually ask for it which he greatly enjoys :)

And I'm not sure 100% but I think he's now very happy that his wife is this willing to keep him satisfied. I'm not sure if you guys talk these things (we discuss absolutely every detail. I'm not joking) but he may have said this to his friends as well, as they seemed to have this newfound respect for me being the "good wife". No it's not like they come and say "hey I heard he fucks your ass, nice!" but occasionally talk will move to sex or they'll joke about it, and it will be implied that my husband is the lucky one. I don't know, it could ssomething else of course. but still.... Anyway I guess you do what it takes to keep your husband right? :)

ok I shouldnt post this but I cant help myself. here's what kind of cock I like:

1) I highly prefer clean shaven. In fact fully waxed down there if possible - hey I get full brazilian, and believe me I know it's a pain, but you know it looks better and smells better and makes it much more enjoyable to suck your cock.

2) Not too curvy, for some reason those tickle me inside :)

3) Very bulbous heads can look a bit weird, though it's not that big a deal.

4) doesnt have to be  long, 5 inches I'm quite happy with. I have to say though it's much more fun to suck a 7 inch cock, more to play with and lick etc. and I think I can manage to look it more erotic and porn flick-like for him. longer than that can be painful actually.

5) I like it more on the thick side, those generally feel much better than long cocks during sex. Not extremely thick mind you, but thick enough that it's hard to fully wrap one hand around it ( I dont have the longest fingers tho, so most cocks I've had very plenty thick for me). 

There, hopefully I wont get hate-mails for this:)

It actually isn't that easy figuring out how wet I am. Obviously I know if I'm feeling horny, but readiness down there is another issue as I can't always tell. Sometimes, if I'm really wet and swollen yeah I'll feel it, sometimes I'll even realize my panties are wet, but often it's not that straightforward. I might be feeling very very horny and jump on hubby, only to find out I'm pretty tight and dry (in which case he's usually nice enough to eat me out get me ready to fuck :). I'm not really sure why, although being tired or dehydrated seems to be correlated. And sometimes I'll think I'm too tired etc only to realize (usually when he starts playing with my clit and pussy and me pretenting I'm asleep) that actually I'm wide open and dripping wet. That is fun  :)

But this is actually quite annoying for me since I'd like to know, you know, before I get things started? It's not frequent, but sometimes during sex hubby will stop and when I ask why he'll say my pussy feels dry and he doesnt want to hurt me (it can be quite painful afterwards if we continue). Thankfully rare, makes me feel really bad.

So I realize this is more of a bitching/complainty note, but a few guys seemed interested hearing a different perspective so here it is. Also, I guess you'll be happy to know malfunctions dont happen only to guys :)

to sex is like soundtrack to a movie for me. You need both to be great. I absolutely love being dirty, and the more filthy and nasty the better (I dont want to give away too much, but saying something like 'stretch my tight snatch with your big cock' is actually pretty tame for me :)

Part of the reason I like it is it makes my husband go wild and truly fuck my brains out, which is always appreciated :) However, it's also a big turn on for me, and I'm not quite sure why. My admittedly unscientific observation is some women like it, and some feel either it's just not right or far too shy to do it. Our girl-gang (which  goes back to college) is all pretty potty mouth. We think we all get a kick out of being very good girls for the most part of our lives and then unleashing a super-whore all of a sudden; in otherwords it's a release mechanism. Especially in bed, when obviously it makes it sooo good for both parties:)

Now, my personal opinion is many women do suffer from the Princess Peach problem. As in, they actually believe they should be treated like princesses all the time, and sex is like those cuts in Anime with flower petals raining and sun shining in your eyes and a magical kiss and boom it's all done. Well, the truth is after the prince kisses you, he has a long list of other things in mind, and honey you'd better be willing to do some stuff or the happy ending will not last long :)

That being said good dirty talk can be hard. If you arent prepared you'll feel pressure to come up with kinky and creative stuff on the spot, which is very hard (and I admit I'm not always good at this either). You dont want to be repeating the same lame stuff over and over. So you pretty muh need a go-to "stock portfolio, which takes time to develop. Actually one of the reasons I like porn is it's like research on the side for new kinky things to say and do, you know? But it's possible I think that your GF/wife doesn't mind or even likes dirty talk when she's really horny, just doesn't know what to say. The hardest thing in sex really is to be able to talk openly and without embarassment what you like during sex, and if you can do that I think this is one of those things that is easy to find a happy middle ground.

(Thanks for the inspiration Andy! Hey, a few people seem to read these :)

so, this was a pretty raunchy discussion with my girlfriends over some wine last weekend (ok ok, we were pretty drunk :) Two of my friends vehemently insist that it's best getting fucked with fast, short and shallow strokes - their argument is that it's like masturbating. Me and another friend absolutely, positively prefer longer, deeper thrusts, even if it's a bit slower, and in fact the whole point is it's not like fingering yourself, it is better -provided it's not a monster cock though, it can be painful actually. (the last of the group is unattached so she doesn't quite have the same large sample size with the exact same cock as we do, if you catch my drift :)

We couldn't really reach a conclusion except to note that it probably depends a whole lot on the position and the shape and size of the cock. Obviously if it's too big or too small there are issues, but we're all married to fairly average sized cocks. One of the girls who liked the "bunny fuck" as I call it has a husband with a very upward-curved cock (yes, we saw pictures. no, women are not the innocent angels we all pretend to be :) and we think that may simply be the reason. She also prefers mish adn again in that position with a curved dick maybe it's better rubbing inside of the clit? The other bunny-fuck girl said her husband has a fairly straight cock so yeah, we dont have a ton of data to draw conclusions. Us the deep penetration gals both deal with straight and pretty normal cocks in the 6" range (and yeah, we had pics to show too:)

Anyway, for the very few people who actually read these random blogs o'mine -posted usually while drunk and in this case simply bored and horny and waiting to get out of here - feel free to comment!

So, yes, I like porn. ~all women my generation have watched porn at some point (it's the internet for you folks!), probably searched different types just like I did to find what they like, and most either do watch porn at times, or are indifferent to it but won't mind watching with BFs/husbands etc. 

However I'm reasonably sure there are significant differences between what kind of porn I like and what hubby/average guy likes. First, I like it when people I'm watching fuck enjoy themselves - not into pain or a poor girl getting beaten. I think in part I associate with the woman I'm looking at, and naturally want to feel happy and enjoy the fuck - so long as she's happy, I'm usually ok no matter how perverted the sex act is. Similarly, I don't like the porn gals who have weird make ups and are way too surgically altered. Don't get me wrong slutty dresses etc are fine, just be a normal human you know not an alien? Third, and perhaps obviously I like to watch both people having sex - just looking at naked girls doesn't do it for me, and a cock that seems almost not attached to a body is also not very good. In a way, it starts with studying the people having sex, wondering if they're enjoying and what's it they like and how it would be like to be there and other people watching me, and next thing in my head I've replaced myself with the woman - and if she's enjoying herself, so am I :) Perhaps because of that, I like to see movement. seeing the guy's thrusts give me a sense of his power, and the gal's movements her joy. In some cases the picture itself conveys the action (like a nice big cock dripping cum) so I add the pieces myself easily, but I prefer at least a gif or sth. 

This is a little different from hubby, who seems to be able to get ~instantly hard simply whenever he sees a hot girl naked or in a pose that implies sex. Then again, maybe you guys are simply more imaginative then us and can simply recreate an entire porn flick from a single picture? Also, most men clearly like seeing women being slutty- I guess this is a result of not enough girls not putting out, so I'm not judging :) He agrees with me on the bimbos tho - and clearly prefers normal gals like me, even if I dont have the biggest tits ever.

In case this all sounds too tame, don't get me wrong we are actualy both quite perverted and like a bunch of kinky porn niches, but the differences above still hold.

Anyway, I'm not so sure I made my case concisely or elegantly -if anyone is actually reading these and have a better theory or explanation, please do tell me.

is a bit difficult for me, as I have difficulty reaching orgasm. Dildos dont work for me period, no interest ( I kept one just because hubby likes to see me playing with it occasionally, but that's really just show). There are some buzzers (like this little vibrators that buzz your clit) that I enjoy, but at the end, no joy. I love being eaten, but same deal, after that nice intro just kindly put that cock of yours in me please (although, occasionally exceptions occur here, especially if he uses his fingers just at the right spots. I'll prefer a nice hard cock anytime though). Now I can reach an orgasm using my fingers, but that takes some effort and time and the right mood.

this is kinda weird, because I have no problem orgasming on a cock. I cum more than half the time we have sex, and it's not like  'you gotta be a do it right all night man', I was once told if I was a man I'd be blamed with early ejaculation, which on second thought is kinda rude but was very funny to me at the time. No, I'm not a super-orgasmic fuck bunny (or a squirter for those into that kinda thing), and it needs to be the right man, with good foreplay or some exciting, special situation.... but yeah, big fan of cock what can I say....

PS. Updated this a bit, I think I overstated my orgasm rate and speed and on second read it was sounding like I was claiming to be the 'super-orgasmic fuck bunny' despite the disclaimer. I guess I should not write here when drunk - though I wouldnt write if I wasn't drunk :) 

I cant sleep so whatever, let's do this:

1) I love being on top, cowgirl (facing him). This gives me a lot of control re. pace, depth of penetration, angle... however it is a lot of work so I usually cannot do this long enough for the entire duration we fuck (I guess I should exercise more!)

2) mish: So yeah while this is kinda boring, it's sort of a hug and fuck combo and there are times I absolutely need this period - if I'm feeling a bit emotional rather than just plain horny. I also like feeling his weight on me, although it does take my breath away a bit. Also, hard to talk dirty because of that.

3) like mish but legs wide open: This is great as I can watch my pussy get penetrated by him and it is always erotic for me (what can I say I'm a bit narcisstic). It doesnt go very deep in though, so more of a visual pleasure.

4) Ankles on his shoulders: This can be great if you get the angle right and therefore one of my favorites. It can sometimes hurt a bit if he's on me, like mish. Best time I had with this was when I was lying on a picnic table which was kinda lower than a usual table - and no, I'm not telling more about that :)

5) Sideways. Doesnt do it for me really, but can look great in porn movies for some reason. Maybe we should get a camcorder.

6) Bouncing in his lap. See 5. Impossible to execute for us.

7) Bentover, holding my ankles. See I really like this, but all the blood rushes into my brain and I feel dizzy after not too long. 

8) Doggy on fours: This is my #1 favorite, unless I'm strictly in the mood for mish. His penetration depth is is great and his cock always touches the right spots inside me. No need for acrobatics or feats of strength, we can both go at this for a long time. He says he loves the view - which I kinda miss but usually we find to manage a mirror so that I get to see myself getting fucked as well. The only issue is that contact is minimal - as I said, sometimes I kinda want to hug him or pull him deeper into me and cant do that here. On the other hand, doggy makes me feel very slutty, and gets me dirty talking quite a bit too, which always excites hubby greatly. I almost always cum this way :)

anyways, what do you guys think? 

So I'm in a hotel room, watching stupid cable tv. I really miss hubby. I miss his weight on me, his breath on my neck as we fuck. I miss the feeling of his cock inside of me, the smell of sex, the sound of his balls slapping against me. I miss sensing his orgasm arriving, wrapping my legs around him to pull him deeper inside of me, feeling him fill me with cum. the smell of cum, and feeling it slowly ooze out of me and trickle down my ass and my thighs.

missing hubby.

missing a good fuck.

So surprisingly several different people have asked me this over the last couple weeks: yes size does matter. which is why your cock is almost certainly big enough to make a girl cum. 

See, if you watch a lot of porn -and a lot of you guys do - you end up thinking anything smaller than 7-8" is small because most of the pro guys in porn have big dicks. But just like your average girl not walking around the block in 7" stripper heels, the average guy doesnt measure that much. And that's really great because an 8" dick can be painful when it's all the way inside of you - I know because I tried. (also, walking around in those tall heels is hell as well)

Most my partners measured around 5" (not that I walk around with a ruler and ask to measure their cocks, but in a few cases we did it just for fun) and that was really perfectly good. I'm sure at least one of my BFs measured closer to 4", and he had no problem making me cum (he had a problem of being a jerk, but that's another thing entirely!) 

So seriously, please relax, you're perfectly fine. Sure we joke about it behind you a bit, but that's not different from you joking about our breasts being to small/too big/ not perky etc - and I'm fairly sure that's the only thing guys talk about when girls are not around :)

Ok, so it's somewhat annoying to get squirted in the face - just imagine someone with a supersoaker gun shooting in your face:) On the other hand, men love it - and it's absolutely the favorite for hubby, so that would make it doable thought perhaps not frequently.

But it really is a favorite of mine. And here's why: I love watching a big cock, veins throbbing, erupt, shoot white globs of cum. See, when we cum, it's usually moaning and squirming but nothing really dramatic - usually hard to tell if we came at all right? When you cum it's the whole fireworks, white streaks flying all over, yells of 'take my cum bitch' etc, you know, there's no doubt you came. I find that very satisfying, there's a sense of accomplishment actually, having made him enjoy a big loud orgasm. And again, men enjoy this so much- a cute twenty something encouraging him to cover her face with cum, smiling as he unloads- which makes a little acting and ignoring some minor discomfort quite ok right? :)

Yeah I kinda do. No not the way I love chocolate. And admitedly it's an acquired taste, and taste varies a lot between guys. I had one guy who really was disgusting. If you chain smoke it'll come through. If you're pretty healthy and in shape and eat well, it does taste good, usually. Texture is more of an issue really, if it's 'lumpy' it's not very good, and can happen if he hasnt cum in a while - but with my husband it's usually quite good.

Another way to look at it is this: I dont mind the taste of cum. But I do like to have my partner enjoy mind blowing sex. It seems to me that what men really want is their sexual partner to show that she enjoys the sex and him, completely. The best way to show that it is to accept his cum with a smile, and swallow it with gusto. It makes it tremendously more enjoyable for him, to see me on my knees, encouraging him to cum in my mouth, taking his load with a smile, and swallowing it and saying it did taste great - really I had guys humbly thanking me for fulfilling their dreams for doing it. And it is so easy for me to do - your cum doesnt bother me in fact I kinda like it, and you enjoy it so much it makes me enjoy the experience much more too. I mean, why not do it?

I realize most women dislike cum. Most of my friends will take in their mouth, but only as a 'special favor', and probably with a frown or worse (I have a few on the same wavelength as me though). I think for the most part this is about norms: Just like a blowjob was considered an unspreakable thing a few generations ago (it's fun to read that in early 20th century even most prostitutes wouldnt do it :), in a few decades it will likely be considered fairly normal, if still somewhat kinky.

So yeah, I'll happily take your cum, swallow it, play with it, lick it, eat it. As long as it makes us more enjoyable for us both :)

Since I'm asked these repeatedly, I'll write here for those who bother to read :)

Yes, I do like to give a blowjob. I'm surprised this is surprising, since I never had a BF who wasnt willing to go down on me either - the point is to give each other pleasure, so you know why not? Actually sometimes it becomes an issue as my husband wants to make me cum with his tongue, and I really need a cock in me, like now! I've heard very few girls who claim they never do it period, and even those change their tune at some point anyway.

That being said, my mom said it was considered gross and very unlady-like when she was younger. So I guess the norms changed somewhere in between, and maybe your wife is still somewhere back in the 20th century. It seeems like unshaved pubic hair was also very popular back then, so I kinda like where we are now, thank you very much:)  

cheers

amy