so I guess this is FAQ on why I'm here. I mean, I realize it's a place mostly for men, with few exceptions.

Here's my deal -while I love being married and love my husband, the thing is I miss the excitement of meeting a new guy, discovering what he's into, if he finds me hot and so forth. I have absolutely no intention of doing anything that puts my marriage in jeopardy, although I find doing so extremely hot and fantasize about it :)

so, I find the lovely, horny perverts here a great way to scratch that particular itch. At lease some of you guys find someone intelligent to chat and discuss sex and share fantasies with a fun way to spend time. I love the freedom internet anonymity gives me to be open, to the point of disclosing vulnerabilities which I'd never do with a man I just met or dating. I cherish the sheer lust that comes through some of the messages I get. Hubby is ok with this in general because it's obviously not real, and he gets home to a very horny wife who's willing to indulge in his fetishes, which are many, as long as she gets banged good (and he's great at delivering it :)

Obviously not everyone is to my taste (and vice versa of course). Overtime I learned what to do to screen effectively - my nick is not "hot wife come and get it 123" for a reason, I am very clear about my boundaries, and if I chat I never indicate my gender so that only those patient enough to check people's profiles (And I guess take a quick look at the blogs) bother with me. I think ruling out younger guys has helped a lot too, I no longer get the "boobs???? boobs!!!!" messages :)

cheers

a