to sex is like soundtrack to a movie for me. You need both to be great. I absolutely love being dirty, and the more filthy and nasty the better (I dont want to give away too much, but saying something like 'stretch my tight snatch with your big cock' is actually pretty tame for me :)

Part of the reason I like it is it makes my husband go wild and truly fuck my brains out, which is always appreciated :) However, it's also a big turn on for me, and I'm not quite sure why. My admittedly unscientific observation is some women like it, and some feel either it's just not right or far too shy to do it. Our girl-gang (which  goes back to college) is all pretty potty mouth. We think we all get a kick out of being very good girls for the most part of our lives and then unleashing a super-whore all of a sudden; in otherwords it's a release mechanism. Especially in bed, when obviously it makes it sooo good for both parties:)

Now, my personal opinion is many women do suffer from the Princess Peach problem. As in, they actually believe they should be treated like princesses all the time, and sex is like those cuts in Anime with flower petals raining and sun shining in your eyes and a magical kiss and boom it's all done. Well, the truth is after the prince kisses you, he has a long list of other things in mind, and honey you'd better be willing to do some stuff or the happy ending will not last long :)

That being said good dirty talk can be hard. If you arent prepared you'll feel pressure to come up with kinky and creative stuff on the spot, which is very hard (and I admit I'm not always good at this either). You dont want to be repeating the same lame stuff over and over. So you pretty muh need a go-to "stock portfolio, which takes time to develop. Actually one of the reasons I like porn is it's like research on the side for new kinky things to say and do, you know? But it's possible I think that your GF/wife doesn't mind or even likes dirty talk when she's really horny, just doesn't know what to say. The hardest thing in sex really is to be able to talk openly and without embarassment what you like during sex, and if you can do that I think this is one of those things that is easy to find a happy middle ground.

(Thanks for the inspiration Andy! Hey, a few people seem to read these :)