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yet another controversial topic I guess :) well, hubby and I enjoy anal sex a few times a year. To be honest I'm not a big fan - it literally is a pain in the ass, though with enough KY not that big a pain.Thing is it's not that bad during -assuming we're talking about a normal sized cock, but later on it can get bit painful, hard to move or sit. I could say more things but I dont want to turn off my few readers even more so I'll shut up. Enough to say that I gave this a try once in college and decided it wasnt worth it. And when hubby asked I said no and closed the door on it and I thought that was that.
Funny, thing, and a big reason why actually keep coming back to imagefap: ~2 years ago I was messaging back and forth with a couple horny guys who were totally into asses. Anyway, at some point I realized that they werent necesseraly obssessed with it because it was way better than pussy. they wanted it mostly because normaliy they couldn't get any (with their gf's and wives, that is) and it had developed into an obsession with this, er, forbidden fruit so to speak.
So anyway i considered this quite a while. I didn't think hubby would divorce me cause I didnt let him fuck me in the ass of course. But I worried he'd get frustrated that he couldnt get what obviously many other men did (and if you watch porn a bit too much you tend to think absolutely everyone except you is getting pornstar action every night :), or worse he'd simply go to a prostitute to get what I didn't give.
Therefore, after much thought I decided I should let him have his way with me. The first time I told him was quite hilarious :) We were in a fancy restaurant, all dressed up, romantic candles and wine and everything and I lean into him, all elegant and lady like, and say "I want to get fucked in the ass tonight". He dropped his fork and was totaly "wait what????" :D
Anyway, he did get his way with me, and yes it was uncomfortable the next day (I had to take the day off with some made up excuse). And no I cant say it was extremely enjoyable, although he clearly very much enjoyed it and was very appreciative for a while after. My current MO is to do it once every few months (usually I actually ask for it which he greatly enjoys :)
And I'm not sure 100% but I think he's now very happy that his wife is this willing to keep him satisfied. I'm not sure if you guys talk these things (we discuss absolutely every detail. I'm not joking) but he may have said this to his friends as well, as they seemed to have this newfound respect for me being the "good wife". No it's not like they come and say "hey I heard he fucks your ass, nice!" but occasionally talk will move to sex or they'll joke about it, and it will be implied that my husband is the lucky one. I don't know, it could ssomething else of course. but still.... Anyway I guess you do what it takes to keep your husband right? :)
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