I'm well aware of how douchey the terms "alpha" and "bull" are. It's really just a lack of a better term. I am bigger and more talented in the sack than most guys. Still have a high drive. Wives and girlfriends respond to me in front of their own men. I've actually been in a couple swinger situations, and tried one live cuck... meh. Not my favorite. I prefer to just be the sideman. I'm also into politeness and respect and not having to be obvious or "put anyone in their place." Unless they want that... No. It's about pleasure and trust. But then what term would you use? I kind of like "Experienced Gentleman." Howabout "Handsome Hot Hung Headshop Guy?"