I'm well aware of how douchey the terms "alpha" and "bull" are. It's really just a lack of a better term. I am bigger and more talented in the sack than most guys. Still have a high drive. Wives and girlfriends respond to me in front of their own men. I've actually been in a couple swinger situations, and tried one live cuck... meh. Not my favorite. I prefer to just be the sideman. I'm also into politeness and respect and not having to be obvious or "put anyone in their place." Unless they want that... No. It's about pleasure and trust. But then what term would you use? I kind of like "Experienced Gentleman." Howabout "Handsome Hot Hung Headshop Guy?"

The hot dominatrix and I (bull) have joined forces. We're both a bit older than our contemporaries, so we've decided to teach an adult "sex ed" class. Because these 20-somethings cannot even talk to each other. Q&A, pointers, empowerment, all of the above. I'd LOVE to tell these boys how to be men... in many ways. A cool, wise black dominatrix and an aged white bull... I would trust those two to teach me about coupling. And then some.