But daily wanking is not a problem for daily fucking - my wife and I do it each morning, though sometime late mornings or afternoons on weekends. Some might find it rather routine but we both enjoy it very much and she cums with the fucking, accompanied by spraying if a long exciting fuck.

 There is pretty much always a start phase where she sucks my cock, which she does very well. She uses an egg vibrator on her cunt during this, and I let my mind wander off over all sorts of dirty things. the second phase tends to involve me fingering her and getting her ready for my cock, her vibrator still in place, sometimes with some spit and sometimes with kissing.

 Then I get up and she gets on all fours, our preferred position as she is a big woman. Sometimes because i'm not hard enough (usually on weekend if I've already chatted and wanked alot and the mind finds focusing hard) and sometimes because her cunt invites it, I then caress her g mound while wanking up hard. And then I slide into her and I continue to fantasise while fucking, waiting for her pleasure before spunking inside her. Occasionally, I finger her anus while fucking her, but almost always caress her large buttocks which are sensitive to the stroking.

The wanking and fucking are not, as you can see, so far removed from each other. She uses a vibrator as part of her sucking and fucking and I use fantasies. The end result, however, is very enjoyable for us both and I love it the way it is. 

I guess I wank pretty much everyday, typically now in front of the screen. Not always rock hard - it depends on the chat and fantasy I am in with someone else. Usually, it is early in the morning before my wife is up but on weekends it can be much longer.

I used to go more frequently to view films in a cabin of a sex shop, door closed and cock out, but that has become much more infrequent. Still I do find that a real occasional pleasure: to order a very dirty or hard film (scat, puke or hard sm) and to see it right through (rather than the snippets of film on the Net), wanking and hearng the sounds of other films through the flimsy walls and knowing that in front of them are other men masturbating.

And I also used to wank - before being with my partner (for past several years) - in bed before getting up or before going to sleep. But I think it would be rude and insensitive with her lying next to me so don't do it unless on a business trip....

I just had a most enjoyable chat with an older married man even though he typed very little. He wanted to imagine his wife with a masseur, he naked and she getting her anus fingered, and me also in the room. But as the scene developed he was the one up on the table getting his cock and anus massaged, and i was the one caressing his wife's rectum. It ended up with my entire hand up there. At first he'd said he didn't want me to find anything inside, but then suddenly changed his mind and i was dealing with her constipation by bringing out her compacted excrement bit by bit.

At the end, he got up and had his wife walk into the room - it is morning here - so I could see her on the cam without she knowing. He could not see me as I do not cam but enjoy watching as I write fantasies. Most enjoyable.

This is a subject that has long interested me; like all the others here with dirty tastes it is one we're all confronted with. Those of us with strong sexual drive combined with unusual tastes cannot do much to ignore that. Just pretending they will go away isn't an option. The large majority of people I've chatted to on-line about whether their partners 'know' say that they do it entirely in secret - even the fact of going on-line, looking at porn, chatting and masturbating is hidden from their partner.

So one solution is to be with someone on a permanent basis - perhaps happily, perhaps less so - but to have a secret life.Another solution is to live the sex side to the full but never to have a serious partner. This means you can fuck who you want, masturbate and watch as much porn as you want, hang out in louch saunas, wear rubber and shit your own pants, and whatever else, and not have to worry that the wife or the new boyfriend will find you out - because you avoid any commitments that would be a constraint.But if you do want more than just sex in your life, how to have the companionship, even love, while recognising your own particular sexual needs?

One way is to make the sex the first criterion of meeting up with someone and a good part of the criterion of staying with them - which means that internet meeting or some other form of ads is probably the most likely route - and then see whether there is anymore to it. If yes, stick together, if no, go your own way.The other approach I guess is to go out with colleagues or friends of friends or someone you meet at the dance or the art class and then hope, if they are nice and the sex gets steamy and they start to find out about you, that they will accept you as you are. This is the less cynical, less calculating approach but one, it seems to me, replete with risks of failure and ridicule.

And then there are the couples - very rare I suspect - who just become filthy together and never look back. Romantic dirtiness - how many in that rare breed?

I took a pleasure at one time to write erotic, well pornographic stories and poems. I may put them here as they never did rouse much interest on the site I uploaded them. Perhaps the pleasure in these cases is more in the writing than the reading. But though I won't spend much time on it I may put things in this blog from time to time. I think this little poetic offering sums up my view on what porn appeals to me.

Pornocrat’s Complaint by Dirty Parisian

Fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck
Suck, suck, suck, suck
In-out, in-out
That’s what this film’s all about.

The false OOOO-OOOOs
The high-heeled shoes
The perfect pecs
Sadly too, the boring sex.

That porn’s no good
Instead it should
Be full of raunch
Real-world tits, a touch of paunch...

... and smiles and sweat
and hairs and wet.
Not Barbie pink
But passionate and steamy kink.