I have panties, bras, garter belts and girdles that I give away. You can see the selection in my galleries. In the girdles folder go to any of the “modeling” galleries to see the individual items. Some items have been given away and all of them are no longer available as this free giveaway has been offered for some months. I have only had two people interested and only one of them actually sent me an address. Both were males. I had desired to send the items to females who would model the lingerie for me and let me see the pictures either privately or posted on imagefap. However, this hasn't seemed too popular.

I can understand not wanting to send and address to a stranger and I must say, this is a one-way arrangement because I don't provide a return address, don't call and hopefully I am not providing any information that about me to a stranger. So, I get an address, box the items and send them; I know I am honest and will not use the information I have in any way. I would tell you to contact the person who took me up on the offer, but I respect their privacy and will not tell you who it is, so I cannot use them for a reference (unless they decide to post something on my comments). Anyway, I try to do this very safely for all of us.

Why do I have lingerie that I am willing to give away? Well, I really like panties, bras, girdles, etc and would like to have someone model them for me. I am now in my sixties. Many years ago my wife would model a little for me, but never really liked the stuff I liked. I hate cotton panties and that is what she wanted. I like lace bras, etc and she would not wear them, preferring the smooth ones that go unnoticed. She will not wear girdles or garters and nylons. So, I still bought her stuff to model for me in hopes she would at least fulfill some of my wishes. She didn't and this is no longer an option. So, some of the items I have are her size and never been worn, complete with original tags still attached.

Next, I tried getting some of the items in my size and wearing them myself to see if I received the same pleasure from just having the items. Well, I didn't. I am 6 foot and 200 pounds and I look pretty ridiculous in woman's panties. A bra would have to be a 42-44 just to stretch around my chest. Plus, when a man is buying a 42 bra with no woman, the cashier pretty well knows who is going to wear it, and that is almost more humiliation than I want in a store. So, I have some items that I bought to see them and try them, but this is not me and they are available. Normally, the stuff I have for me is 2X or at least a 9 panty, some XL.

Then there is the stuff I bought just because I want to hold it and look at it wishing I had a model. These are all sizes. I found that a cheap source for this type of stuff is Goodwill and other thrift stores. Sometimes even Ross or TJ Maxx in the clearance area.

Overtime my collection has grown and I keep it hidden from my wife due to the variety of sizes, she would know that it is not all intended for her. And that leads me to YOU. I need to get rid of this collection before it is discovered. I don't want to just give it back to Goodwill and came upon the idea that someone might like to have it and would possibly even model it for me. Good idea, but in planning, but in action, as I said earlier, only one person has taken me up on the offer. This explanation of how I came upon the collection is mostly for him, but may be of interest to other fappers. I still have some of the collection left. I will send more to my friend if he still wants to get it or I will eventually take it back to Goodwill. I would even entertain selling it, but that would mean I have to provide information about myself and I choose not to do so. So, it is a one-way free deal.

I do like the feel of some of the panties and have actually worn them. They feel very nice when I have them on and I like to run my hands over the material. I have worn them under levi's a couple times to various places, but NEVER to work and will NEVER wear them to work. I will say that I like the way some men especially sissies and CD's and TV's look in panties and dressed in other beautiful outfits to include nylons, garters, tight dresses and about anything they wear. BUT, I do not look like them. I look like an old man is woman's underwear and it is not pretty. Therefore, when I do wear lingerie, I wear it under something else and do not look in the mirror. A few years ago, I wore pantyhose under slacks to a gay (transgender) bar with loafers clearly showing my pantyhose at the ankle, but did not even raise one eyebrow or comment. In short, it was a non-event, perhaps, unnoticed by everyone else. I do have panties that I wear around the house when my wife is gone and lately, that is all I have done.

I have learned over the years that panties and the male body are not really made for each other. Large panties allow for freedom of movement and are somewhat comfortable and can be worn for hours. The control panties are another story. They keep most intentions of getting a hard-on nearly impossible and crush the balls. Once soft, my dick wants to go into the crotch of the panties and do a “natural” tuck which becomes rather uncomfortable and requires constant adjustment. Girdles (open bottom) are good and I like the way they constrict the body. It feels good to be held tightly. I know some women liked this, but most must have felt too constricting and wanted to get rid of them. Pantyhose don't really do anything for me and are uncomfortable. I like nylons, but they look ridiculous on me and I don't wear them. I tried them and I like the garter belt, just not the nylons. I think if I were brave enough, I would wear nylons under my slacks and go to a bar and let someone see the mark of the garter tab through showing through my slacks.

If I were a woman and wanted to control a man, I would make him wear pink panties, most likely control panties, anytime I wanted to be in control. I would certainly make him wear them out when we were on a date.

Anyway, that is how I came to have so much lingerie, why I am getting rid of it, and how you came to get it or how it can become available. I think I will keep a couple pink panties back for me just to imagine that I have a mistress who would make me wear them. I also have a couple vintage girdles that I may keep just to look at—as I said, I am in my sixties and these were probably worn many years ago by some beautiful woman late 1950's through 60's and bring back some fond memories for me. In those days all the girls wore girdles or real garters and nylons.

So that is why I have panties, bras, etc to giveaway.

I have had a discussion on a couple occassions with women and it always turns out badly.  The idea is that women like sex as much as men.  I find this impossible, but I have learned never to start this subject with women.

Women don't like sex as much as men, they like LOVE MAKING as much as men.  I think this is the real answer and it is perfectly OK.  To prove the point, just think about the classical cliche' that says:  "Sex, women need a reason, men just need a place"

 And for an ugly guy like me, if women like sex as much as men or at least as much as I do, I would never get from my house to the office on any given day.

 So, women DO NOT like sex as much as men.  They may like to make LOVE as much as some men and they do need a reason to have sex besides "Hi, let's go fuck."

Many years ago I requested pictures from a dominant in one of “those” magazines with the ads. I also got a little description of what I needed to do to join her. The idea was that I would become part of her stable by proving myself to her not just monetarily, but through submission. She said her new submissives or slaves had to start in her box. The slave entered her box and had to be willing to service her other male slaves. She said all her male slaves started in the box and when they had proven themselves to be submissive to her in this manner were allowed out of the box to serve her in other ways. Her slaves were supposedly not gay or bi, but were in the box and later serviced outside the box because of their devotion to her. She didn't specifically say, but I was led to believe that she never really serviced her slave or brought them to orgasm herself,but allowed her slaves to service her and brought each other to orgasm and sexual relief. Perhaps, a very limited and special slave or slaves were actually given sexual relief from her. I did not correspond long enough to find out more.

For years, I have thought about such a box. She did not send me a picture of the box and perhaps it never did really exist. However, it does in my imagination. I have seen a couple items that look like they could be close to the box, but nothing I have ever seen is exact to what she described. Her box was large enough for a male to be placed inside with one, two or maybe more “gloryholes” for a male to insert his cock for the slave inside to service. The slave inside could remain anonymous from the other males if he entered the box before others entered the room. The male inside the box would be led to think that all the males he serviced has at one time been in the box themselves and had “earned” their way out. Or maybe he was being made a fool and the Mistress did not make all the males go through the same process. Perhaps, she just found a bunch of guys that paid her to receive a BJ. The slave might never know. Also, the slave could be kept from seeing who he was servicing in a variety of ways. Blindfold comes to mind. Slave could be handcuffed in the box or not. Lots of options.

The letter she wrote indicated that the outside slaves were not always willing to be serviced and some had to be secured to the box, but there was no more info. So, what would this box look like and how would it be constructed.

To start, I think it would have to have a floor. Preferably, strong and maybe padded. The padding would have to be covered and cleanable because I expect at some point, it will get cum on it. Naugahyde comes to mind. I think the box will need to be 3 quarter inch plywood at a minimum and on either a 2 X 4 frame or maybe angle iron type material with the wood bolted to the angle iron as the strongest method. Due to the weight, the box should be on casters or wheels capable of moving the box with a person inside. The box dimensions are unknown, but at least 4' X 4' X 4' and one side needs to have a door that can be closed and locked or barred. I think all sides of the box need to have a round glory hole with different heights on each side to accommodate various height males on the outside. All glory holes need a cover to be at a minimum a velcro fastened cloth to perhaps a wooden plug locked in place. One side of the box needs a glory hole inside a larger square hinged door about 10” X 10” and the opening should be padded. This allows for a female slave on the outside to present her pussy or ass for service. This opening will also allow the Mistress outside to cuff/uncuff the slave inside or if the slave inside needs, the opening can be used to insert dildos or remove them, gag/ungag, blindfold/unblindfold, you get the idea. 10” X 10” is probably even large enough for some slaves to put his head outside. At a minimum, it would be enough for the slave to have to show his face and give away his identity. The side opposite the door – not sure here-- Just a glory hole or a pussy service size hinged door. The top of the box will have a trap door oval hole through it. The trap door will not be on a hinge, but slide open. On top of the oval hole will be a toilet seat on short legs. You have seen them used by Mistresses. In this case the slave in the box will put his/her head through the oval hole to service the Mistress seated on top of the box. She will get up by a little ladder on the front corner of the box. She can open the oval hole before she goes up or after she is seated, the piece of wood over the oval hole just slides back. With a 4' box, the slave inside will have to get on his knees to push through the hole and service the mistress. As an alternate, a little stool could be put in the box allowing the slave to sit with his head through the hole. This will make the slave really strain with his/her head really back in order to offer proper service. The slave could be free inside the box, or with the addition of two holes in the roof of the box, the slaves hands could be pushed through and then cuffed or otherwise secured on both sides of the toilet seat. In short a pillory that is horizontal vs. vertical. The toilet seat should be widely opened in front and placed near the front of the box. This allows a slave to be secured to the outside front of the box. While there, the outside slave must lick mistresses pussy while the interior slave licks her from underneath. That is why the box front should perhaps be a pussy hinged door instead of just a gloryhole. At some point, while the outside slave services Mistress on the toilet seat, the interior slave will be servicing either the pussy or cock of the outside slave. In a 4 X 4 box, two slaves could be shoved in, one servicing through the toilet hole and one serving the front secured pussy-licking slave's cock/cunt.

The outside of the box needs to have eyebolts properly placed. Some near the corners to secure leather cuffed hands. A couple midway down so something can be placed across the outside slaves waist level forcing the slave to keep close to the box. Maybe one over the top of the gloryhole to attach a slave's collar and keep them from bending over and looking in the hole or just keeping them close to the box. A couple at the bottom so the legs can be spread as desired by Mistress. The box is large enough that a tied slave or untied slave can sleep right in the box. No need for release or direct supervision. Of course, the box is not strong enough to become a “real” cage and will not really keep a slave unless the slave is actually submissive. The close exception to this would be an iron frame or perhaps the angle iron version. The door would need reinforced. It will keep the submissive slave submissive and controllable. In the event of a fire or other real emergency a wooden framed box could be kicked apart and escaped without external rescue. Therefore, the box could house a submissive who was willing to follow Mistresses orders...or else.

The box could have 4 outside slaves and at least one maybe two inside slaves. Outside slaves can be blindfolded, tied, cuffed, gagged, or free. The exterior people could actually be multiple dominants. The examples from the letter used males in the box, but female slaves would be easily substituted. For a total lesbian situation, all the glory holes could be replaced with cunt doors. Also, additional padded holes could be made higher up that would accommodate putting tits through the holes. Slaves inside could have a set of holes for putting their tits through also. Picture a slave with her tits through the two tit holes and nipples connected with nipple clamps, therefore, unable to back up from the holes. Helpless. The box might need modified for this since it is only 4' high, and a slave on her knees might have her head against the top of the box in order to put her tits through the tit holes. Easy solution is to put another covered hole in the top of the box for her head. She could see, be hooded or blindfolded when she puts her head out. For lesbians, she could suck a dildo when her head and tits are exposed.

Slaves can be put in the box clothed and have to pass their clothes out the holes. Or they could start naked, tied, cuffed...wow the options.

Hope you liked the blog of the box. I think of it often. I will try to post a gallery called MY BOX FANTASY to show you the closest box-like entry I could find. Perhaps a group like English Mansion, OWK, or some other domme with a dungeon could build one for us and take pictures. I am sure there are plenty of volunteers to conduct research and experimentation.

Male or female, the box can be used by either as both the owner or the slave. Would you be willing to be put into the box if your Mistress directed you? Would you like to be serviced by someone in the box while you are still a submissive slave? Would you like to be the owner of the box and have a stable of slaves to do your bidding? The gay world could have a field day with this box. Picture one slave inside servicing a host of gay males on the outside. What else would you do with the box, please let me know by commenting on the blog, on my site page, or send me a message. I really enjoy messages and answer most of them.

There are various types of humiliation for slaves or even just people wanting to have a little dom/sub type fun.  I would like to hear a few things that people might do.

 I have pretty much divided humiliation into Public, semi-public, and private.  With other categories for verbal and physical.  We may have our favorites with some we don't like and some we think about but would never actually perform.  The last ones might be our fantasies.

Just to help if anyone even reads this blog I will put down a couple examples.

The first is public and a well-known fantasy of having a mistress take a slave/sub to a lingerie store to buy him some lingerie.  While there, she can verbally humiliate him by making comments that he will soon be wearing the lingerie, etc, or publicly humiliate him by having him show the clerk that he is already wearing something.  This is a great fantasy, but in real life, it could actually embarrass the store clerk or even offend them.  This may not produce the desired effect, but who doesn't enjoy the thought that the store clerk is into the scene and would play along.

Public humiliation may be wearing a collar.  It may be dressing a male and taking "her" out in public.  It might be going to a bar and having the slave get on their knees.  Public could also be done in the house, such as having the slave strip for friends, serve drinks.  It might be making a sissy dress for someone else and forced to show off. 

Semi-public is one that is just between the master(mistress) and sub/slave.  It could be as simple as making the male sub wear panties to a movie for the mistress.  It could be the slave going to the movie with a butt plug in her or a simple dildo in her pussy at a restaurant.  The one fantasy that is well written about is the lady who has to go to the bathroom and bring her panties back to her date in the restaurant and hand them to him--this could be done privately or more openly.

Private humiliation is done in the home or hotel and has numerous possibilities.  Complex to simple.  Standing naked and modeling, spreading legs, or jerking off.  Being tied and spread.  Then more complex scenes such as eating from a dog dish.

Then there is verbal humiliation.  Do you like to be called a whore, sissy, slut, bitch or many other names while you are being submissive.  Does the dom partner like to talk while being the boss and directing the action.  Such as "on your knees slut" and "spread your legs"  There are also derogatory words I have seen posted, wimp, worm, pig, worthless.  Some people get off on being called little dick, etc.

Just a start to spark discussion.  What have you done and what are your thoughts?

I think I should start a blog, but I have very little I want to say.  I would prefer if someone wrote here and I answered.   However, to start something off, I seem to be addicted to this type of porn and activity.  I really like the pictures of what other people are doing.  I expect a great deal of them are pro.  I have been around for a few years and remember open bottom girdles.  I never got to fuck a woman in such a contraption, but have always been curious what it would be like.  Therefore, vintage bondage of women wearing girdles is very interesting.  I would like to tie a woman up and fuck her while she wss wearing a girdle.  This is a fantasy and will not ever really happen, I am married and not looking for an actual sex meeting or affair.  But I can look at the pictures and wonder.  Are there women out there who can tell me they got fucked in a girdle?  Are there men who have some stories?

 Based on the above, one might guess that I am a little dominant.  However, the right woman could dominate me--at least in my fantasy.

Enough blog for awhile, add whatever you feel like.