There are various types of humiliation for slaves or even just people wanting to have a little dom/sub type fun. I would like to hear a few things that people might do.
I have pretty much divided humiliation into Public, semi-public, and private. With other categories for verbal and physical. We may have our favorites with some we don't like and some we think about but would never actually perform. The last ones might be our fantasies.
Just to help if anyone even reads this blog I will put down a couple examples.
The first is public and a well-known fantasy of having a mistress take a slave/sub to a lingerie store to buy him some lingerie. While there, she can verbally humiliate him by making comments that he will soon be wearing the lingerie, etc, or publicly humiliate him by having him show the clerk that he is already wearing something. This is a great fantasy, but in real life, it could actually embarrass the store clerk or even offend them. This may not produce the desired effect, but who doesn't enjoy the thought that the store clerk is into the scene and would play along.
Public humiliation may be wearing a collar. It may be dressing a male and taking "her" out in public. It might be going to a bar and having the slave get on their knees. Public could also be done in the house, such as having the slave strip for friends, serve drinks. It might be making a sissy dress for someone else and forced to show off.
Semi-public is one that is just between the master(mistress) and sub/slave. It could be as simple as making the male sub wear panties to a movie for the mistress. It could be the slave going to the movie with a butt plug in her or a simple dildo in her pussy at a restaurant. The one fantasy that is well written about is the lady who has to go to the bathroom and bring her panties back to her date in the restaurant and hand them to him--this could be done privately or more openly.
Private humiliation is done in the home or hotel and has numerous possibilities. Complex to simple. Standing naked and modeling, spreading legs, or jerking off. Being tied and spread. Then more complex scenes such as eating from a dog dish.
Then there is verbal humiliation. Do you like to be called a whore, sissy, slut, bitch or many other names while you are being submissive. Does the dom partner like to talk while being the boss and directing the action. Such as "on your knees slut" and "spread your legs" There are also derogatory words I have seen posted, wimp, worm, pig, worthless. Some people get off on being called little dick, etc.
Just a start to spark discussion. What have you done and what are your thoughts?
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