So underneath all the unrealistic goals and aspirations, extreme fantasies, what would I actually like in a fem-man and in a relationship?

Basically We want to a slave in the sense that doesn't have a choice and what we say is final. we want to control you everything that you do, clothes, work, going out with friends etc. Now we don’t need to exert that control all the time, or over everything at every moment. But the point is that we can turn around one day and decide that we don’t want you wearing something or going out that night and that’s the end of it, you don’t get to. The control is there 24/7, the ownership and power is omnipresent. You may need healthy reminders at times of who is in charge but generally speaking the relationship is based around this.

However, your opinions may be heard if there was an issue or a decision etc. Maybe we will take it into account when reaching a decision but the final word is is ours.

In saying that, everything we have put on this blog still applies,You as a "woman" will still want that rough treatment, inferiority complex and all the other fun stuff. If Master/Mistress wants you to eat every meal at home from a bowl on the floor, you will do that. If Master/Mistress wants to nail my tongue to the kitchen table because I was talking too much, they can. If Master/Mistress wants me to spend my weekends chained to a toilet, completely ignored, just used as a piss hole and toilet paper, then that is what will happen.

However, Master/Mistress will care about me and they will keep my mental and physical health in mind. Master/Mistress not going to want to break their toy, They're going to want to be able to do these things over and over. you want a Master/Mistress that you as a slave can trust, someone to lead and guide you, someone to take care of you mentally. you as a slave don’t want choices or decisions, you want to be controlled. And you need a Master/Mistress who can do that for me but with your mental well being in mind, with the end goal of making you a better person/thing/object/cunt. Meaning, a better play thing for them, a better servant, toilet, dog, arm candy, conversationalist, whatever Master/Mistress wants at any given moment, you want to be that for them.

MY GROUP:
https://fetlife.com/groups/ 150450
group is for consenting Women that are submissive in mind and love their feminine look so much they get a erection just thinking about wearing heels. that are willing to group together in one home honoring one male as daddy, master, husband and occasional mistress. One woman will be the wife, leader and Mistress. All others will be considered sub to her and will be sisters, daughter, aunts, and grannies... The male lead will only submit to the wife "only" when he feels the need. All women will have vanilla jobs to support the home in one way or another.

ABOUT ME:

I'm (https://fetlife.com/users/ 251209) ISO two or three submissive and very pliable feminine mind personas to be relocated and be trained into a poly family. There will be a mature Minded Feminine Matron to govern the occupants.. All others will be her daughters/slave to her. I will be only a part-time occasional Daddy that will visit from time to time. All daughters be employable with vanilla jobs. All funds will be pooled (rent, food, clothing toys,etc.) and shared equally.

anyone from NY, NJ, PA?