"Maybe 5 mins is enough the first few times. But then it will hopefully become something they both spend a lot more time on. When he comes home, before you go to sleep, and when you wake up together."
""Mums, I can't help it. It's throbbing so much. What if you turned to your side, and ahh, it goes in your Gina, for just a little bit. We can go to sleep like that. Is that OK?""