It is always irritating when you don't have a concise way to describe a given object or set of behaviors. I've been looking and looking for a way to describe my particular, though i doubt unusual, flavor of cuckolding that I enjoy. In particular, I am very turned on by other people finding out that my wife cuckolds me. Preferably, it is situations where it is impossible to deny that my wife is having sex with another man. For example, we are in a social situation and several people witness my wife take another man into a bedroom and shortly thereafter can hear them having sex. All while I remain out of the bedroom. I realize this is a shade of humiliation, but I hesitate to call it that as it gets several other forms of cuckold humiliation that do not arouse me. Anyone have any ideas?