Mother asked me to keep her company at a friends barbque last night. It was all very civilised (and dull) until I realised the hosts husband was looking at me. At first I thought I was imagining it, but he caught my eye several times. Naturally I was curious and made a B line for him. I soon realised, my gaydar was giving out good signs. So I made sure he understood that I was a queer too. He said I've heard rumours about you and your wife. I asked to him to elaborate so he did and he was pretty much spot on. I said I know nothing about you, but I'd like to learn more. He subtley gave me his card and said maybe we should get together sometime and went back to be the perfect host. My libido has been rock bottom for months now, but this give me a little boost. I'll text him later today I think and see where it takes me, if anywhere.