"There is a practical reason to wear a cage. Sometimes your wife meets a guy who is grossed out by the idea of your jizz inside her. I've worn a cage but I'm pretty far from submissive. I was happy to do it because I wanted my wife to enjoy herself, just like she did things for me. It is weird waking up on the first day and you forgot you had the damn thing on, ha! Also weird that my wife had actually given the keys to 3 different guys. She told me much later, I didn't mind since she knew them really well. I wonder if she still has that cage thing?"
"The deal was my wife didn't have to tell me every little thing that she did with guys, or give me every video. I realized she tended not to tell me about the more romantic moments. So naturally those made me the hardest. Watching her start to cuddle with a guy on a video after they cleaned up after sex, and she would grab the remote and say quickly "well that's it, I'm glad you liked it...." but I would beg to see the rest. She would never let me, though after many years she "declassified" a lot of those vids since she hasn't seen the guys in years or decades. Anyway, I went to
pick her up after work one time soon after we were married, I got there really early but it made more sense to just walk around and enjoy the grounds. On the side of one building there were two people outside a door, tucked into circular seating area with bushy trees. I got closer...it was her! And a guy I really did not care for. I was going to walk over and say hi when her hand went up to his hip. What.... then they got close together. Even though I was young I almost passed out because my heart rate shot up so fast. Then they started maaking out, hard. His hand shot into her blouse almost immediately. I felt like I was floating in warm goo, and my dick was so hard it hurt. They kissed for a long time...tongues, necks, I was sure they were going to fuck right there in broad daylight. Of course they did not, and I went back to the parking garage to wait and hear her story. But she didn't anything...just her usual chipper hello, her day was long, can't wait to get to the restaurant for dinner. I figured she'd wait until we were fucking, get me cranked up by telling me about kissing a guy I hated. But still no. And she never did. Another coworker of hers that was savvy to our swinging said he saw her car in condo complex where that other dude also lives. So they fucked. She did show me a video that didn't show the dudes face, just a steamy mystery lover that seemed to know her body well. Obviously an instant favorite because I knew who it was and it rocked my ball sack that she was keeping a secret. What else did they do? Why him when she told me about several others? Were there other secrets? Mmmmm. I have the best wife. Marry an escort and you too will have a huge library of wife porn when you are old."