Being Swedish my first crush was an ethnic Finnish girl. And the first one I met on a dating app was ethnic Finnish. Therefore it was good I got a crush on a woman from the Philippines. You know how Finnish ladies complain that men having fetish for the Finnish, but if I goes for an East Asian, no one will ever think that's a fetish.
Julian Barnes novel England, England, that's published 1998, and take place some years or decades later, mentions: "Prince Rick's three-in-bed sessions with high-price escort girls." Why being paid by tax players to represent the nation. Ok, not a prediction, male royals who desire women, have in all places and all time bedded a lot of women.
Thought I had. This site has not gone through enshittification? Out telephones gets full of bloatware, facebook is crap, google gives you advertising and desinformation, x.com is US and Russian reactionary propaganda ... but porn doesn't change.
I'm not saying that following it is entirely fair, at least it doesn't have to be. But it often feels like the media and culture describe sex, and especially boys, as destructive to women. It's as if the absolute minimum requirement for being kind to women is not having sex with them.
Observation, since like 95% of my sexual fantasies were about older women, I used to be jealous of Ashton Kutcher, back in the days of his first marriage, but he might not have turned out to be a good guy.