Ron used to be the one who was "messy" when we had sex. Since he had his prostate surgery and can no longer produce his wonderful semen, it is me who is the "messy" one when I can't control my squirting when I orgasm. Ron loves it though - so, all is well!! Love, Beth (P.S. I miss Ron's semen so very, very much! You don't know what you have til you lose it!)