Finally not technically a virgin any longer, though the hookup did not go as planned. He was sweet and cute. He wanted me to top him and was very submissive. But my body was not there. It's too soon I think.

I remember back to being a teenager and how long it took me to finally feel comfortable expressing myself sexually. Now I don't have years and years to come around to this, but I do have 25 years of habitual heterosexuality to overcome, and that's going to take time.

So dance with me, have a drink with me, kiss and cuddle with me -- I'm just going to take it slow like a good gurl Every little bit helps.