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As a guy who was bullied in school it’s difficult to understand why some women should like to be humiliated in bed. Just saying.
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Posted on : Apr 1, 2015
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Commented on Apr 1, 2015
Hi Denny
I'm sorry to hear about the experiences you had in school. I was bullied a bit in school but looking back it was clearly a lot less than many other people had to put up with.
I think I can answer your question but your experiences are so emotionally tied in that I'm not sure i can help you understand.
It's not just women, not at all. And the key to all D/S relationships is that the bullying/ violence/ abuse/ rape/ whatever is not real, it's acting. It's role play on both sides and anyone who doesn't see it like that shouldn't be involved in it. For some, acting out being abused bullied or whatever helps them overcome past traumas. For some, surrendering control to someone else helps balance out a life of responsibility and probity. For some it's just the thrill of doing something seen as taboo or naughty.
It sounds to me (I Am Not A Psychologist!) like you need someone to talk to about your past experiences. And I'm not suggesting re-enacting them with a Dom or Domme is necessarily going to help you!
x
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