When going down on your girl, pay attention to how she touches herself. Notice the way she likes to be touches. Try to incorporate these movements with your tongue and mouth. Slowly lick her pussy lips alternately teasing by making your tongue wide then narrow and by flicking in a flutter and then wide slow licks like an ice cream cone. Lick every inch of her outer lips before moving to the inner lips and clit. Once you have her warmed up a bit, breathe on her clit and put your lips to it and rub gently. Take your tongue and swirl around the little nub before darting down the inner folds and back up again slowly. Take the clit into your mouth with a slight sucking motion and then softly mash the clit between your lips  before  fluttering your tongue over and around her nub. Continue this pattern with her clit and inner folds until she’s screaming….slide your tongue down her folds and lick your thumb getting it nice and wet to rub her clit while your tongue slides down to her opening. Slowly lick and flutter your tongue around and slightly inside her opening teasing her…do this several times until she grabbing at you begging. Then slide your tongue inside her opening and dart in and out motions while teasing her clit with your thumb. If she’s not cumming by now lick your way back up to her clit and repeat the sucking  then mashing pattern. Alternate between these two methods until she cums. If she likes fingers…switch between using your tongue to penetrate her to your fingers and alternate. The key is to work the entire pussy.

Hope this helps all of you gentleman learning to please your lady.