After getting to interact with some amazingly sensual people on this site, I find myself completely immersed in the idea of a mature woman giving herself up to a BDSM fantasy. I don't like the harder, harsher edges of some role play as a rule: what I do love is that mixture of fear, surprise and shock that can inhabit a person's mind.  

I love inventing these sorts of fantasies, because it gives me a chance to enter that mind. I'm not just experiencing the scenario, I'm inhabiting this often sure-headed, powerful, mature female personality as it is challenged. I think less of the perpetrator than of his or her quarry. To that end, I'm equally if not more turned on when another female takes the aggressive stance.

Just some thoughts - and I have to say - to those who have corresponded with me - thank you so much for your erotic, exciting responses. It is a high form of pleasure, and greater still knowing that for both of us it is only a fantasy.