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Things I don’t know what to think about
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Around twenty years ago a woman in this country wrote a debate book about rape. One of her points was that courts must stop letting guys get away with the excuse: “I thought she wanted it”. Not only is that not fair to the victim. It also indicates that men are so stupid that they rape women without knowing they rape. The last four years I have read four articles (three written by women, one written by a man) that contiary claims that men are that stupid. A man - or acctully, they might even mean men in general - can think he just had normal sex, when he really rape someone.
It might very well be more complicated, but I want to say that anyone believing that is a misandrist. It sounds so crazy, but we live in a society that thinks that. Or the media elite, lives in a bubble that thinks that. Btw maybe there was a time when a phrase like “the media elite” was something far right trolls wrote. Which should be ironic since I’m a Swedish social democrat and America far right trolls on this site have criticized me before. Also if straigh men can rape women without know it, when gay men must go around and rape men now and then without knowing it?
Then, another thing to say is I think most men have fantasies about saving women and children. We are also frustrated about a society where women can’t be safe. Again speaking as a social democrat, one reason so many men in Europe vote for anti-immigation parties must be because certain non-European immigrants, from certain conserverative and religious cultures are so ridiculously highly overrepesent in the rape statistic.
Lastly, yes I’ a man, but I haven’t had sex in nine years and I never had a one-night-stand, so I basicly can’t be a rapist, even if you think men are so stupid. And I hope this isn’t too off topic here. I had no other place to write it.
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Posted on : May 10, 2021
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