Therapy?’s song Femtex from their 1994 album Troublegum included the lines: "Do you want a fuck? Do you want a friend? Do you want sex? Do you want revenge?"

Ok, I don’t know if I want sex? It’s complicated, controversial and even politicised. Part of the problem is that I’m a straight guy. Socieity has a wiered dubble view when it comes to women and sex. Either womens are described as just as horny as men, and even being interested in one night stands with good looking guys. Because “women are humans too”. Alterantive sex is seen as something that could often be destructive for women.

In the first case I could feel cheated for missing out on one-night-stands when I was young and cute. Because I was a good looking boy, even had a female friend who told me every girl in her class know who I was, for that reason. In the other case I should be happy I haven’t exposed women to such potentially horrible things as one night stands. Yep the fact I don’t know if I want sex or not, might be a reason to live in celebrity. If you know me, that's what I do.