"She is a paradox. A puzzle. she is faithful and yet detached. she is committed and yet relaxed. she loves everybody and yet no one. she is sociable and yet solitary. she is gentle and yet tough. she is passionate and yet platonic. In short, she is predictable in her unpredictability..."
Welcome to my place to explore my darkness and discover my light. It's little pieces of me all put into one and includes, some hard and soft BDSM pictures, many quotes that stir my soul and things i find beautiful and interesting. submission is in my soul...a lifestyle that chose me, and this you will see by some of the things i choose to post. i can be very sweet, but i also have a sharp tongue and can be quite sarcastic. Honesty is just too beautiful to ever put into words. I fall in love with people and their honest moments all the time. i still believe in the good of other people. And please, if i let You in, don't break anything.
"So You think You'd like to take on a really smart submissive? Are You up for it? Are You sure? Are You the Women for the job? Let's look at"
A really smart woman who also happens to crave submitting to her Dom (or being a Serva to her Mistress) can be a bit of a challenge to handle. She certainly doesn't mean to be, it's just how she's wired. She is probably in a position of power in her career where she's used to taking charge, giving orders, making sure things are done just so. She's used to assessing a situation, analyzing the problems presented and coming up with a satisfactory solution to getting the job done. She has a talent for seeing through the bullshit and getting to the heart of the matter.
Carry this over into her D/s relationship This smart woman will see right through the wannabe Dom. She has no patience for posers and impostors, she wants the real thing. She doesn't suffer fools gladly, she likes smart, educated Women with Style and Class. She needs them. A wannabe dom will never get a handle on her, will never be able to control her, she will never respect her as she is able to see through her bluster and posturing. She recognizes someone who has learned to say all the right words and go through all the right motions but it's all an act. She knows it. She won't waste her time on these Women. They will fall by the wayside.
So this narrows her options considerably. Only a really smart, naturally wired Dominant will do.
Oh, did You think the Dom made all the choices here? Oh hell no! Here's the thing, she's not the only one under consideration here. The Dom is too. She has expectations, needs and desires as does she. She has a set of requirements, as yet unspoken, that she will judge Her by. She will either measure up or she won't and she'll deal with that reality as it comes. But she will not settle.
So let's say that she meets this Dom who fits all her requirements... She is smart, educated, witty, charming and most importantly a natural Alpha Women. Is she up to the challenge of her? If she is used to more passive women she will certainly have her job cut out for Her and she may just want to move it along. However, if this is a scary smart (dare i say "geeky smart") Dominant who thrives on a challenge then this thing just might work.
Be warned, she will not submit easily even though this is what she most desires. This Dom will have to be able to see inside her mind, slowly and carefully reaching in there and grasping control without her realizing it. Most do not realize the importance of mental domination and most are not capable of achieving it with the smart sub. It is a subtle and difficult thing to accomplish for the best of Doms. They have to be laser sharp, extremely observant, patient and Mistresses of the mind fuck. This girl can see a mind fuck coming a mile away so for Her to achieve it with her is an amazing thing. If You want a smart subbie to respect You, get a good mind fuck in. Don't let her see it coming, just go for it, spin her brain into chaos and bring her to her knees before she realizes what has happened. She will be stunned and speechless in the aftermath of it but she will also respect and admire any Women that can pull that over on her. This is a Women up to the challenge.
She must be patient and methodical in her approach to her. She must appreciate and value her intelligence and not be intimidated by it. She must continually try to improve Herself as her Mistress to be able to stay on top of her (pun not intended but hey, i'll take it). She must be consistent with her discipline and punishment, unflappable under the most trying of circumstances (and believe me, she'll "try" You without meaning to, it's her nature). She must clearly state Her intentions and needs, Her "rules" if i may, and She'd better remember what She told this smart sub because she will remember everything She has said
If this describes You dear Mistesses, then perhaps You are up to the challenge. I guarantee You that if this sub is Yours, You will achieve a happiness and contentment that You did not realize possible. When this girl finds You worthy and submits to You and You alone, You will indeed be in possession of the rarest of treasures. She won't be easily won but she will be worth the effort should You succeed. She will give You her all, heart, soul and body, completely. You will never want for more.
NOTE: this is written from my perspective as a Lesbian sexual sub/slave. I am speaking from my perspective as a self proclaimed geeky smart woman who has found it difficult in the past to find a Mistress able to subdue and control me. I apologize to any Dommes & Mistresses out there who i may have offended. Again, this is my opinion, my experience. If it offends you then move it along, i can't please everyone nor should i have to..."
