Me and my partner have changed dramatically in the last 8 years. Things who were inimaginable 10 years ago have been claimed, refuted, confirmed, proved, disproved. I now consider possibilities i deemed too goofy in the past, like consensual non-monogamy. It triggers many trust issues since i don't always distinct what can be a revelation of what can be a lie, and what was true but is now false (and vice-versa).
To make it short, i am looking what are my kinks and what are dealbreakers.
Not all what i post are fantasies of mine. I am exploring and see if I keep an interest as the time goes by. Sometimes it comes and goes. So deleting what i don't look at the moment defeat the purpose.
A good exemple is pregnant women. It is not the pregnancy by itself, it is the form of the body taht call me. It is not the same body that BBW, but some BBW call me the same way.
