I take this test every once in a while. The results don't change much. As the test shows, I'm turned on by every letter in the BDSM acronym.
Bondage - YES!
Being restrained, unable to move while a dom toys with me or punishes me is a huge turnon. Having a sub spreadeagled in front of me is magical. Ropes are fun - especially for CBT or tit bondage, but I like cuffs and collars by far the best. There's just nothing like leather and polished steel. I def need more bondage in my life.
Domination - BIG YES!
Oscar Wilde was right: "Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power."
This is the sex part. I tend to take control in normal life. I'm used to having people do what I say, and this extends to my sex life. Pushing a sub, teasing, pulling them back from the edge again and again, and then finally pushing them over and over to peaks past what they think is possible is a huge thing to do. Being this type a dom is a very generous role to play - it's super satisfying.
Being on the receiving end of this as a sub is a trip for me because it's so different from my "real" life. I'm always amazed what a perceptive tuned-in dom can help me discover about myself.
Sadism - OH YES!
Having a sub's permission to hurt them - what an amazing thing! I have no interest in abusing someone unless we've agreed to this kind of sexual foreplay. But, with permission, pain is an amazing tool for a dom because it focuses the sub on what's happening to them. Endorphins from pain boost sexual pleasure so much. A spin-cycle alternating pain with pleasure builds an amazing cascade that's incredible to watch - an ultimate power trip. There's only one thing better...
Masochism - SUPER YES!
My most intense sex has pain in the mix. I have a relatively high pain threshold, especially when I'm turned on, so a dom is welcome to thrash me hard enough to raise bruises. I like it when reminders of a session linger. Needle play, especially nipple torture is also a huge deal - mind blowing. I've tried it on myself, but it's not the same. I need a dominatrix to complete the picture.
