Professor Hiroshi Yamamoto works in the
Department of Psychology, University of West Florida. He has
established a sexuality research department, that consists so far
only by him and his research assistent and daughter, Naomi Yamamoto.
They have mapped the sexual landscape of America of today, mainly by
interviewing thousands of students.
They discovered one area that was more
common than they had anticipated, but not much researched. So when
Naomi decided what her dissertation should be about, she chose that
particular subject, which is ”Consensual incest”. A lot of
students had anonymously confessed that they had erotic or sexual
interactions with a close family member, and that they didn't regret
it.
They found that:
34% of the interviewees had spied on a
parent or a sibling or accidently seen them nude,
22% of the students had had sexual
fantasies or dreams about a close family member,
13% had played games with a sibling,
where the unsaid goal was to see them naked,
7% had had consensual, sexual relations
within the nuclear family.
They also searched for people on
internet forums, who wanted to share their positive experiences, so
they also got the perspective from parents.
To better understand how people could
overcome the taboo of incest, she conducted an experiment with her
father. To see if the attraction to a family member was inherent of
learnt, she tried to for just one minute, fantasize of having sex
with her father, and then write down the feelings she had during that
minute. After the first time, she was revolted and felt ashamed for
thinking like that about the man who had raised her. But she had
decided to keep doing this, one minute at a time, to see if her
feelings could change.
The second time she forced herself to
sexualize her father, she was still uncomfortable, but not as much as
the first time. The third time, she was almost a neutral audience to
her own fantasy. She didn't feel much at all. It was more like
watching porn that didn't turn her on. The fourth time, she began to
enjoy trying to think of erotic situations with her dad, and she felt
naughty in a good way. The fifth time, she noted that she was
evidently aroused. She concluded that incestous desire was an aquired
taste. To confirm this, she masturbated while thinking of her father
having sex with her, and she orgasmed quicker than when she used to
look at porn.
She told her father about how she used
herself as a test subject and the result. He offered to perform the
same experiment, thinking of her. His result was similar to Naomi's,
but more accelerated. He could jerk off, thinking of his daughter,
after only the third time.
The implication of their experiment, is
that sexual attraction can be taught, if you only open your mind and
allow yourself to be turned on by a sexual orientation. This is
probably also true of hetero- and homosexuality. They discussed the
possibility to ask others to replicate the experiment, to see if they
were unusually openminded when it came to matters of sex.
They also discussed if they should test
if their theoretical attraction also would work in practice, i e if
they should have sex for real. At this stage, they had to involve
Himari Yamamoto, Hiroshi's wife and Naomi's mother. She would have
to give them permission to do that experiment. She realized the
importance of their groundbreaking research, so she agreed. Naomi's
husband was more reluctant, but agreed to, if he was also allowed to
have extra-marital sex. The practical solution was that he had sex
with Naomi's mother, at the same time as the professor did this
important research with his assistant.
Naomi included the experimental part of
her research in her dissertation, which made it the most talked about
paper from their university that year. It was a detailed description
of how they felt seeing each other naked for the first time, touching
each other and then performing different sexual acts, including
intercourse. For the sake of scientific rigor, they filmed the whole
experiment.
The biggest difference the study led to
on a personal plane, is that the first weekend every month, Himari
and Naomi swap partners.