I get many invitations from members of this site to become a member of the group. I have one condition to the male applicants.

Tell me why you want to enter. I stated the same at  the main page of the group, but many men don't read that I guess. So they will be denied. It does not have to be a long story, just a line why you want to be a member.

Women don't have to do that, if they want to do it, they can naturally, but it is not needed, they get access, because I am happy they want to be a member.