One of the questions that I am often asked is: "How do I add galleries to your club?"
That's a fair enough of a question. Finding the directions on how to do this is not an 
easy task. So, I post this blog entry to help anyone wanting to add galleries to a club.
First, you need to be a member of the club you wish to add galleris to. So make sure 
that you have joined that particular club.
This next part may look complicated, but it is not. It just takes a few steps.

1. Click on "My fap" in the upper right corner of most any screen (the one next to "chat").
2. Click on "My Clubs". It is the fourth link below "Content".
This opens a list of all the clubs that you belong to.
Scroll down the list until you come to the club you want to add to.
3. Click on "Add Galleries" on the right side of that list.
This opens up a list of all the galleries that are allowed to be added to that club.
4. Click the check box, on the left side of this list, next to the galleries you wish to add
5. Scroll down to the very bottom of the page, or press the "end" key on your keyboard.
6. Click the gray button that says "Add Galleries", and you are done!

    This works with 99% of all clubs. I have found two that had different requirements for 
adding galleries. In that case the club will tell you how to add your galleries to it.


Note: Some clubs restrict entries to certain genres. Just like when you upload a gallery, 
you select a category, or three, for it to go in. If your gallery has not been uploaded to 
one of those categories, it will not show up in the listing for that club.
For example, my clubs have no restrictions so all of your galleries will show. If a 
club restricted entries to "Teen" your galleries that you uploaded to "Teen" would show.


Remember, it sounds more complicated than it really is. Good luck.
 

   I have been widowed for seven years now. I am told that, after the death of a spouse, you will spend two years alone, for every year that you were married. That being the case, I will be dead before I'm allowed to date again.

   Many of my friends have tried to encourage me to start meeting women again. "There's plenty of women out there!" they tell me. And they are not wrong.

   There is an estimated 63,644 women living in my neck of the woods; with an estimated 66,732 men. That means that there are .95 women for each man, no matter how you look at it.

   Of the 63,644 women who live in my neck of the woods, it is estimated that 32,313 of them are single; with an estimated 34,500 of the men being single. That means that there are .93 single women for each single man. It's not getting any better.

   What are my chances of finding that "One in a Million"? Point zero six three, to be exact. I'm better off playing the lottery. Oddly, if I were to play the lottery, and win, I have a feeling that my efforts to find that "One in a Million" would turn into finding "One every time I go out in public". Or would that be "She'd find me"? Hmm. Anyway...

   Now, let's subtract the estimated number of women who have never been married. Why? Because women, who have never been married are, most likely, a little on the young side for me. And, if they have reached my age bracket, without having been married, there is a REASON for it. So and estimated 32,313 minus an estimated 16,772 leaves me with an estimated 15,541 potentially available women. That leaves .45 women for each man; and I'm NOT into threesomes.

   Simple deduction would lead one to realize that, once you remove the women who have never been married, I am left with women who are either divorced or widowed. While they are not "exactly" alike, women who are divorced, often, share many of the same feelings and difficulties as women who are widowed, and vice-verse.

   Women who are glad to be divorced, need time to get over what their ex did to them. They need time to deal with the issues that made them want to be away from him in the first place. Women who would have rather stayed married, have to deal with feeling of being rejected and abandoned. They need time to deal with those issues. In either case, it could be unfair to the woman, and me to attempt a relationship at this time. She might be tempted to latch onto me, just to "fill the void", a natural reaction. And, from my point of view, she will be changing, drastically, every day; until she figures out who she is.

   Much of the same goes for widowed women. While most are in a state of grieving, a few, not many, but a few find themselves happy that he is gone. In either case, be it the sudden loss of someone they loved, or the sudden freedom they have; still, these women are not the best ones to pursue. Besides, there are a number of widows that will be dead before they can start dating again.

   So, with those two groups, we can remove about a quarter of the women from the estimated number of potentially available women.

   Of the remaining women, there are those who vow to NEVER get into a relationship again. This is due to their age; or they will never find anyone like "him"; or it was a bad relationship, etc. All are good, valid reasons to avoid future relationships. So, we can subtract another quarter of the women from the estimated number of potentially available women.

   Then, there are the women who desire a relationship... after the kids are gone. But until that happens, they have no time for meeting men or dealing with the new hassles. They want a relationship, but not while they have the children to care for. According to the estimates, that's about 40%.

   That leaves me with an estimated 777 women who are potentially available. My chances of finding that "One in a Million"...? Just dropped to point zero, zero, one.

   Now, all of these estimates are based on women over the age of 15. Did anyone else notice that the legal age is 18, and yet the marital statistics are for women 15 and above. Hmm. Anyway, as I was saying, these estimates are based on women over the age of 15. So... at my age, we can subtract about another two thirds of the women from the estimated number of potentially available women. Leaving an estimated 259 potentially available women.

   And let us not forget about the women who are gay, and the women who are currently dating; neither of which have any desire to be potentially available. If we subtract those women from the estimated number of potentially available women... we find that there are, undoubtedly, very few women that are available.

   But I am not one to shy away in the face of overwhelming numbers, oh no. With a shower and shave under my belt, and my newest flannel shirt on my back, I went out to find and meet the remaining potentially available women... And they were BOTH psychos!