For the vast majority of people, doing sex is a monotonous 2 to 3 dates per week, lasting from five to ten minutes each. Once getting old, making love may last up to 20-30 minutes, but occuring much less often, meaning an average of one date at 7 or 10 days.
In this article:
- fact - sexual behaviour literature - what medical treaties say - cum control benefits - ejaculation is not mandatory - as for me
Fact
In both situations, doing sex sums up to only 75-90 minutes of pleasure for a whole month. Furthermore, when aging, erections becomes more weak and rare, the sperm volume decreases dramatically and prostate health issues begins to occur. This is almost a general picture of having sex, driving to frustration for men but mostly for women that rarely attain orgasm(s) in these conditions.
Sexual behaviour literature
Most writings on sexual response and behaviour refers almost only to the moments beginning with erection and finishing with ejaculation; but nothing is said about the recovery period that starts with the ejaculation and till the next sexual intercourse, days of sperm and stamina cumulation that precedes and makes the hit on next time dating. Like a yin-yang dance and balance, the recovery time is as important as acting sex itself just because these are days when you gain the conditions for the next successful bang.
What medical treaties say
It is a fact that medical treaties state that the duration of sex intercourse has to be between 2 and 10 minutes. More than that, they name "delayed ejaculations" those who occurs later than ten minutes and consider this as a medical condition that has to be treated. At the same time, also medical treatises state that ten minutes are not enough for a women to attain an orgasm, even less several ones. These being said, it is not a big wonder why many women are feeling frustrated of their sexual life, most of them thinking that hours-lasting sex intercourses are simply fairy-tales.
Cum control benefits
Learning to keep control over ejaculation permits you and your spouse to run hours-lasting intercourses, thus having enough time to play with your bodies and sensations while exercising cum control. It is because only after 30-45 minutes of sex the male's body accomodates with sensations, so it can be said that sex properly begins only after one hour of adapting. More than that, cum drainage sessions can be performed only after man has reached full control over his sensations, this meaning after average one hour of "accomodating" sex. What happens after is only up to you - you can slowly drain your semen in several succesive sessions, or you can keep it all till the end to cover or fill your girl with it.
Ejaculation is not mandatory
On the other hand, during long-lasting sex sessions, the male's body get a such balance that the urge of ejaculation gradually disappears. In these conditions, a man can stop making love without ejaculating and without being frustrated, meaning that he can have sex later, same or next day, thus being able to perform couple times a week, even if his old-age permit just one erection a week if he was to ejaculate. Even if you and your spouse meet once a seven, ten or even fourteen days, 90 to 120 minutes of having sex are fully enough and more satisfying than 2-3 fucks a week 5-10 minutes each. Practically, controlling your semen gives you the power to keep your stamina and make love how long and how many times you like. Sky is the limit.
As for me
In my 20's I learned how to control my body and sensations, succeeding to perform at least one hour of having sex, but rather two on most of times. Now, living my 50's, I learned how to recover after fully emptying my balls and regain stamina for a healthy and pleasurable life. In this Journal I will share with you my skills, habits, opinions and experiences on how we make it as many times we like and how long our schedules permit.
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We are Nut and Milk, a middle-aged married couple enjoying cum control and experimental handjobs, but also playing on teasing, edging, cum drainage, orgasm denial, ruined orgasms, and forced orgasms. We also perform plain sex, mastering cum control and getting to keep it one-two hours per session. But besides this, we are closely involved in handjobing, for orgasm control training, mutual pleasure and having fun.
In this Journal, we are going to share our work and experiences, emphasizing on how attaining cum control and keeping a good sexual shape - two basic conditions for a happy living and long-lasting and satisfying sex life.
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