"Punishment begins when the person receiving the spanking is ready for it to stop and the person administering the spanking hasn't finished. No 'topping from the bottom'. It's like a roller coaster ride in that when the bar is down and locked and the cars are on their way along the track, you're not getting out until the ride is over. I love that feeling of not being in control, and given the condition my bottom is frequently left in that's about the only feeling I enjoy for awhile."