AITA?: Long story short, went to a wedding with two mutual friends - a buddy of mine and a femal friend from work, of whom is much older (like 20ish years?) than me. We got shitfaced and cabbed back to her place. She had one spare room that my buddy took, and she offered to split the bed with me. You can ask me for more details if you need it to decide but basically had some adult-oriented conversations, she stripped down, asked me to strip down, and before we fell asleep she poked and touched various parts of my chest and arm playfully. The questions then are: 1. Was she in fact trying to make a move on me? 2. Am I the asshole for not making a move on her? and 3. When I woke up about an hour later and found her with the sheets thrown off in a near 90 degree angle facing away from me, and with her top leg pulled up so that her pussy was clearly visible to me, should I perhaps have practiced better restraint and not jacked off in bed next to her while she slept?