To continue my story, I met up with the man who slipped me his card the other day at the barbque. We had a drink at a local pub restaraunt. We talked for ages but mostly about sex (Of course) He hasn't had any for years with his wife, though he does meet the occasional man for fun. He's never been with a sissy or TV and is interested to find out. Considering we barely know each other we were perfectly open about our needs. On the way home he stopped the car and we kissed. I like him, but he's not a Daddy type, but he's a man and thats what counts! I asked him if he would like a blow job which he quickly said yes. All a bit rushed for my liking, but a nice way to get to know each other a bit. I've asked him around next week when Lois is away, so we can be intimate in a more relaxed setting.