the perfect marriage

[TommyHerb]

I am not sure, if this is the right place for this theme?

We are on a porn website here, and for some people the topic of MARRIAGE doesn't seem to be very relevant.
Either because they are not married, or because the wife is not particularly sexually motivated - and therefore has no interest in the "erotic wonderland of pornography". (Just like the vast majority of women unfortunately have no interest in pornography - why is that?)

I assume that most of the men here have marital experience. Does sexuality still play an important role in your marriage? The older you get, the less sex you seem to have. And the more interested the men are in pornography. No sex with the wife - that's why we're on ImageFap.

I've been very, very happily married for over 30 years. My wife is my greatest fortune. Who can say that about himself after so many years? My wife and I have a recipe for how to have a very active, fulfilling, vibrant sex life for many years: We don't have sex with each other, but with others. So we've been living together like siblings for 26 years and it's going very well. We are often touchy with each other, but it never gets sexual. My wife has her lovers, and I have mine, we don't know the others, we don't talk about it either. It works very well.
That's why we don't have any jealousy. After all, "cheating" is the most common reason for the failure of a marriage. You really have to ask yourself whether your partner can be attractive and erotically appealing for the rest of your life? Do you not have desires that your spouse may not or cannot fulfill? And isn't it incredibly interesting to have new sexual experiences? Who can be blamed for that? Don't we all want to have a fulfilling sex life without fear of losing our partner?

Our marriage model is unimaginable for many, but it works very well for us. Sometimes we talk about it with friends and it always causes arguments: "Is that what you want?" It can cause fear and insecurity. Only one thing is important: that you really love each other. This doesn't necessarily include sexual loyalty, but the trust to stay together for a lifetime.

What do you think?

[reddawg77]

Just be careful her not wanting any intimacy from you is a red flag. I am going through a divorce as we speak after 22 years of marriage with about 15 of that being open. She has painted me as a monster and sexual abuser when in fact this was entirely her idea and I never once forced or picked and any of the guys she fucked. In away it was how I dealt with her cheating. Even once her best friend took her to get her paycheck and she saw the manager groping her. Her best friend told me she was cheating which I already knew about it but it was obvious to others something was going on.

I didn't realize just how evil of a woman I really married she told me the only reason she married me was because I was her meal ticket. I had rescued her from a women's shelter. She told me she hated me ever since the day we got married. I had bought us a house in the city and we had two brand new cars not perfect by any means but most women would have appreciated what they had. She never lifted a finger to help cook, clean or do anything else but give up the sex then that started fading away and she would only sleep with other men.

[johnnyys]

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