"If you walk out that door make sure you are ready to lose our marriage. If you need him more than me then go I will not be here when you get back. The choice is yours what happens is 100% on you."
"He said no not if it is going to cost me my heart and soul. Tell him I quit. I will give you 5 minutes to tell him and get to the car to go home with me or I leave without you and will be packing to move on with a broken heart and soul. He walked out the door and the clock started."
"She was only teasing about that last part but it got her love mad and he left the next day while she was at work. She was only giving shit when she said she was going to do his bully again. She loved her boyfriend and did not want to ever purposely hurt him in any way. She tried to call but he blocked her so she called his parents and told them she had screwed up last night and would do anything to make it up to him. She wanted a chance to apologize and make things right. She then called his friends and asked the same saying all she wanted was to talk. She made sure to tell them this is all on her and if he doesn't want to talk don't force him he is completely not at fault so don't screw with him. He finally called her after a few weeks and she told him she loved him and wanted him back home and that she had made a new rule that he got the right to decide if the guy she chose was good for both of them. She also said we need to talk about everything so we don't hurt each other like she had done. He did come back and they did set rules and talked all the time."