1. Your First Step
You
my dear…. are about to embark upon a wonderful and exhilarating thrill ride
into the world of interracial sex and dating. Regardless of what your situation
is, where you come from or who you are; you and millions of other white women
like you (me too!) are throwing off the shackles of tradition in search of
sexual and personal fulfillment,…and I am extremely happy to have you in the
sisterhood and our lifestyle.
I can only relate to the thoughts and apprehension you must be feeling at this
moment. Much like myself years ago, you have probably given this a tremendous
amount of thought and fantasized about what your new lifestyle will be like.
The only thing I can assure you of is that if you take your new lifestyle choice
lightly, or don’t prepare yourself correctly you’ll most likely find
disappointment. On the other hand, if you are honest with yourself, your
husband or boyfriend, you will achieve that which millions of women like you
are grateful for everyday…contentment.
2. The reason why.
Now that you
have made your decision to join our wonderful lifestyle, you’ll need to take
some time to prepare yourself. Start by asking yourself some very real and
honest questions; are you looking for a one time situation? Do you want a
romance? Or do you want the full lifestyle and everything that encompasses? If
the latter is what you seek, you and your husband/boyfriend have a lot of
preparation to do.
Most white women like you and myself have always had a lingering interest in
black men. We see them on TV or on the street; if your lucky you’ve experienced
the black mans ease at the art of flirtation and felt what it is like to be
wanted by them and more importantly, your want to be wanted by them. Generally
speaking, black men are more athletic, taller, and yes, some are even more well
endowed than their white counterparts. These are all wonderful things about
black men but they tend to be generalities for online sex fetish sites.
Being simply interested in an exotic and exhilarating sexual experience is a
great start; but I think you’ll quickly find that the root reason for your
lust, and the lifestyle we’ve chosen, is our natural drive to be with, and make
ourselves sexually available to, the strongest man we encounter. This idea
while unpopular in our modern society, is the single most offered reasoning
I’ve encountered while speaking with other women within the lifestyle. This is
a natural and basic drive that all women have and you shouldn’t be ashamed of
it. In fact, your choice to enter into our lifestyle shows a great depth
maturity and self analysis, and while many of us choose to keep our lifestyle
out of the public sphere, your choice to take your rightful place and give
yourself to a black male is a beautiful and natural thing so go for it with
gusto!
3. Will black men really desire me?
The easy
answer to this is simply yes. All men are horny little devils and so are black
men. The difference is that a black man that is within our lifestyle (also
known as a Bull) isn’t simply there for some sort of random swinger sex
encounter. He has come into this lifestyle for similar reasons as you have. He
isn’t looking simply for a woman….he wants a white woman and everything she
encompasses.
As modern white women, we are often told (by our mothers in my case) that men
are not unlike dogs. There are good breeds of dogs, she would say; and then
there are bad breeds. The bad breeds my mother was speaking of, if I’m honest,
were black men. Another point of note is that in our modern times we have lost
our sense of uniqueness that we as white women envelope and hold. Due to the
feminist movements and workplace PC protocols, we have had our traditional
standing as the pinnacles of beauty and desire that we once held taken from us.
White men, generally speaking, view white women with quite a bit of
apprehension and confusion. It’s sadly left them with a sense that desiring us
sexually is somehow wrong and they fear having one of us “blow up” if they want
to flirt with us or inquire about sex…black men don’t have this problem.
The black men you’ll find within our lifestyle not only will treat you
wonderfully, they will also desire you constantly. For ages and even today, we
are the very standard for sexuality and beauty; black men are the new standard
for male sexuality and strength. It’s our lifestyle that epitomizes this
concept best.
4. Now its time to prepare…..
Before you begin
Pulling, that is, searching and dating Bulls, you will first need to make some
changes in your own life to accommodate your new lifestyle. Your prospective
Bulls will want you to be at your most desirable and attractive and beginning a
regime of beauty upkeep, as well as scheduling time for your own needs will be
paramount. As is often the case, your husband or boyfriend will most likely
help you make these changes and will actually become enthralled in providing
you the monetary needs and time needed to accomplish these tasks. Don’t be
afraid to ask for his assistance, he will probably enjoy it immensely.
Where to start:
Join a Gym: Regardless of your body type or beginning weight, you
will want to join your local gymnasium and begin working out frequently. Not
only will this help you become more desirable, tone your body and keep you
healthy, the gym is an excellent place to find black men. Black men are very
aware of they’re bodies and tend to work out three or four days a week, you
should too. I personally have found two Bulls at my local gym and find the gym
to be an easy going and neutral place to meet and Pull attention.
Hair care, Nails and Skin: Your
next investment of time and money would be well spent at your local salon and
nail center. Your starting a new lifestyle, so you should start your new
adventure with a new look. Find a complimentary hair style that’s updated and
suits your needs and personal choice. Many women who are just starting out
attempt to get a hair style that looks more urban or “black” I would suggest
not doing this. Your prospective bull wants to see you as a White woman, not a
white woman who has “black” or urban hair styles. You’ll actually find that
more Bulls will give you they’re attention if you have a more subtle and yet
provocative hair style. This can also be said for your finger and toenail care.
Shy away from busy nail care. Keep it simple but professionally kept.
That hair down there: This
is a key issue before and even after you’ve started dating Bulls. As your Bull,
he will give you direction as how he wants you to look while naked, follow his
direction. Your Bull may or may not want you to shave your body but you should
be willing to do so if directed. If you don’t yet have a Bull, its wise to
remove all hair while your dating. Your prospective Bull will want you soft and
smooth and generally attractive in all ways. It’s your responsibility to meets
his desires.
Lets go shopping!: Your
next step in embracing your new lifestyle is to find new and attractive
clothes. Not only will this help you attract your prospective Bulls but it will
also give you the added confidence you’ll need while searching and dating. I
would suggest first, getting a good, form fitting exercise outfit for your new
gym membership. Like I stated before, the gym is a great place not only to get
tone and fit but also finding and hopefully flirting with a few black men so
you’ll want to look your best. Next, look for slim fitting nighttime outfits
that will show off your body and can be worn at various places such as dance
clubs and for going out to dinner. Remember, you’re a wonderful spectacle and
your Bull will want to show you off. I would suggest limiting the amount of
pants suits or jeans that you wear for your bull. Instead go will figure
hugging dresses that show off your body and make you feel sexy. These will not
only entice your Bull, it will also make you feel more like the beautiful woman
you are. Again, I suggest staying away from more urban or hip-hop clothing
choices. Your bull wants to see a white woman on his arm not some false
representation of a bad stereotype. Go for Class, go for Style and go for Sexy!
Lingerie: For your husband the best lingerie should be your body,
for your Bull you should be prepared! The best thing to keep in mind when
deciding what lingerie to purchase is that your Bull is NOT your husband. Your
prospective bull(s) will have a varied taste when it comes to how he wants you
to present yourself to him. Some will want complex garter belts, leather
corsets and hosiery, while others will just want your natural state. Until you
can tune into what your Bull desires though, it’s best to go with a wide
variety. I would suggest that you use this opportunity to experiment with the
different combinations and styles of sexy, deviant and classic lingerie on the
market. The important thing to remember is that when your wearing these
alluring garments, your telling your Bull that you want him and want him to be
happy. The wrong choice in garments can make for an uncomfortable and awkward
experience, the right choice can bring you and your Bull to heights of sexual
fulfillment you’ve never experienced before. I would suggest having two
pairings of black and white thigh-high stockings, garter belts for each, sexy
bedroom shoes, sexy and form fitting bra and panty sets, camisoles of various
colors as well as any experimental choices you may prefer. It is also good to
note that you should place these items away from your husband or boyfriends
view and access. These items are to be shared between you and your Bull and are
not for him.
Condoms and birth control: While
your first lunch date in which your husband/boyfriend will attend (that I’ll
get into later) shouldn’t end in any kind of sexual activity beyond touching
and caressing, your first date with your Bull alone, definitely will. You
should be prepared for providing yourself to your bull and have already been on
or have condoms with you in expectation of this. Ultimately, it is your Bulls
decision whether or not he chooses to use a condom but you should be on birth
control four months prior to dating. In time your bull may decide to have you
stop taking your birth control (We’ll get to that later also) but until that
time you should operate under the assumption that he doesn’t want you to have children.
5. The Lunch Date: Giving yourself to
your Bull
You’ve done
all your preparations, your slim, trim and wanting him; now is the time to slow
down, let go and most importantly enjoy yourself. This is the very presuppose
of your lifestyle choice so take a long deep breath and hold onto your hat
sister, It’s going to be fantastic!
For your lunch date you’ll want to defer to the tastes and comfort level of
your Bull. Keep in mind that your Bull may be a married man so discretion will
be the key. Chose or suggest a place that’s located in a unpopular part of your
town or in another town entirely. To many lunch dates and first meetings have
been ruined by coworkers or family members happening upon Bulls wives and
husbands so don’t let that happen to you. Now that your Bull has selected a
time and place, it is now your husband/boyfriends responsibility to make all
the reservation and arrangements. If your husband is anything like mine, he
will absolutely relish this opportunity to become involved in the beginning
sections of your service to your future Bull.
Choosing your outfit will be a difficult decision for your first date.
Remember, this will be the first time your Bull will see you in person so you
want to make a great first impression. Since you will be meeting in public with
your husband in tow, I would suggest a professional business outfit for both
you and your husband or boyfriend. Sure, you’ll want to keep your outfit choice
sexy and well fitting to show off your attributes but you’ll also need to keep
the other patrons and staff of the restaurant aloof to your intentions. Be sure
to show plenty of your body but in a restrained manner and selection. Your
first instinct should be to want your Bulls hands all over your body
immediately but remember, this is your first meeting, and hopefully you’ll have
plenty of time to give your body to your Bull fully and often.
Upon arriving at the restaurant, you’ll need to go over the basic ground rules
for your husband. By no means should your husband have his hands on your body
when your Bull makes his entrance. Your husband is the facilitator in this
situation and its your job to remind him if he over steps the bounds. Your
husband should escort you to the table and sit on the outside. When your bull
makes his appearance your husband will need to stand, walk over to your Bull
and greet him in the view of the staff and any other patrons. This will set the
tone for your entire lunch date in the minds of the other people in the
surrounding area. The wont think you’re a submissive white female meeting her
new sexual dominant male, instead they’ll see old friends meeting for lunch and
that’s what you want.
Now that everyone has greeted and began ordering lunch, its now time to show
your Bull your interest and his place within your new and wonderful
relationship. Be sure to ask intriguing and seductive question of your Bull,
he’ll enjoy your interest. While physical touching can bee an alarming signal
to others in your area keep it to a minimum. This having been said, if you can
attempt it in a discreet fashion and out of view, feel free to fondle your bull
with your feet and seductively express your sexual interest. You want him
leaving this table with a severe need to take you, so use all of your charms
and let yourself be flirty and sexy.
At this point you should be well aware of your inherit desire for your Bull and
his desire for you. Now is the time for all three of you to exit the restaurant
and for your husband to settle the bill. Upon leaving the restaurant, unclasp
your hand from your husband or boyfriend, and alert him to the fact that you’ll
be riding with your Bull. Remember, this is a somewhat bittersweet moment for
your husband or boyfriend so now it would be a great time to tell him how much
you love him and how grateful you are for his acceptance. Immediately after
telling your husband this, offer your hand to your bull and let him escort you
to his vehicle. Your transition from a curious wife to a owned woman is
complete. No longer are you just a curious passer by, you are now the interest
of your Bull and your focus must be toward him.
Once inside the car, take time to admire your Bull and tell him exactly what
your thinking. Thank your Bull for his time and patience and let him know how
excited you are for your first encounter. If your Bull is like many others, at
this point he will draw you near him and begin kissing you. This is only
natural. You’re here now, no more work needs to be done. Enjoy the moment.
While a car isn’t the most suitable place for exploring your Bulls body, pay
special attention to your Bulls manhood and lower body. Allow your new Bull
access to your entire body. While you might be able to suggest that he drive
someplace more secluded, don’t draw away from your Bull at any time. While your
Bull is driving is the perfect opportunity to receive his manhood orally. Your
no doubt going to be impressed by its size and girth and that’s perfectly
normal. In fact I’ve found that a Bull loves to hear a woman remark about his
penis size and beauty (all men do) so feel free to tell your bull exactly what
your thinking.
While I don’t suggest sexual relations take place at this moment the deciding
vote on this issue belongs to your Bull. Remember, this is not your husband!
Your Bull gets what your Bull wants so be sure to accommodate him. If sex is
off the table for the moment now is the time to set up your first date with
your Bull. You should be considerate of his timeline and make yourself
available to his timeframe. While you may feel the overriding urge to sleep
with your Bull immediately I suggest holding off until your actual date. A
Hotel room will allow you and your Bull much greater amounts of time and
privacy to explore each others body, serve your bull and allow him access to
all the pleasures you have to give.
6. My First Date.
The
experience your about to have is something I cannot accurately describe. The
only useful information I could even conceivable give you is what my first date
with my bull was like.
My first date with my bull took place on a Thursday in December. If you’ve ever
been to Missouri in the wintertime you know that the winters here are bitterly
cold and usually extremely snowy. This night was no exception but I was warm
with anticipation.
My husband and I had gone through all the ups and downs over the past months
that all new couples go through when entering into this lifestyle. Hurt
feelings, disappointment, and excitement placed my hubby and I into a
rollercoaster of emotions, but finally we found a serious Bull who not only
wanted me but wanted to guide us through this first monumental step. We had our
first conversations and emails out of the way, had our lunch date Two days
earlier and were now preparing for the final step.
Even though the weather outside was horrible, nothing…..NOTHING was going to
ruin this experience for my husband and he made preparations accordingly. My
bull had requested that he pick me up at six in the evening after he left work.
His wife had left the state to visit family for Christmas so he had no
obstacles other than his work. Steven upon hearing the date and time,
immediately made reservations in my Bulls name at a fine hotel with a large
King Sized bed and our home preparations began. The day of our date, Steven
took me to the salon, and spa and then out to a late lunch. The day’s
conversation while shopping and preparing let us become closer to one another
than we had in years.
Once home, I was left to take a light nap and get ready, while Steven made
refreshments and began the waiting process. As per my Bulls prerogative, I had
chosen a blue slightly revealing knee high cocktail dress with matching Navel’s
open back shoes. I had also followed my Bulls request to remove all personal
body hair and be wearing a black thigh high bra and panty set. I was dressed to
kill, my hair and nails were completely finished and even by my own
standards….I looked good. On the inside I was a wreck.
Beginning as soon as I hung up the phone with my Bull the night before setting
the time of his arrival, my stomach was full of butterflies and my mind with
concern. Over and over again, I pondered what the evening would be like. I
would ask myself questions I had no way of predicting the answers too. Would he
really show? Would I be able to actually do this? Would Steven? The questions
just rolled through my mind again and again….then the doorbell rang.
Steven and my bull had been making Smalltalk for about ten minutes before I
gathered enough courage to head downstairs. With each step I could feel my
confidence and my excitement grow. By the time I reached the landing I was
positively soaked with excited anticipation. There I found both my Bull and
Husband gazing at me. “You look so beautiful” Steven said; and gave me a soft
encouraging hug. “I just want to say thank you Sue”; “I love you so much” It
was at this moment that I knew we had come through this process together and
stronger than ever. I looked into Stevens eyes and whispered; “I could have
come this far without you…I love you so much”. After leaving Stevens embrace, I
turned around to find my bulls arms enveloping me and lifting my petite frame
into his six foot three grasp and into a wonderful and exhilaratingly
passionate kiss. His large and wonderfully give lips pressed into mine, sending
shockwaves of passion throughout my entire body. If I had any lingering doubts
or apprehension as to if this was the correct choice evaporated immediately…I
was now his and I wanted to give him everything.
We said our goodbyes to Steven and the dogs and my bull placed me into his town
car and off we went to meet or reservations that Steven had made for us. On the
way to the restaurant, my bull and I made silly flirtations and some listless
Smalltalk. I could tell that my Bull wasn’t quite sure about my willingness for
the evening due to his lack of command he was showing me. As I slipped of my
seatbelt and slid over to be closer to him, he straightened firmly and became
somewhat nervous. He then pulled over the car as I let my hands search his body
for the shear pleasure of touching that with which I had desired so many
months. “Are you sure you’re ready for what we talked about” he said sounding
concerned. “I know this is your first time and I don’t want it to be too much,
I want this to work out for a long time”. I paused immediately. I was
astonished and impressed by his compassion about my limits even though I had
spoken with him in great detail about what I and more importantly HE wanted. I
could tell he needed me to say that I was his and that he was in charge. I looked
straight into his eyes, gave him a soft kiss and as seductively as I could
said: “I belong to you now, don’t be afraid to take me to the edge….I’m
dedicated to you and only you……master” His only response: “Were not going to
the restaurant”
In a flash, I found myself at the hotel, through the main lobby, into the
elevator and at the door of the executive suite Steven had procured for us. My
bull stopped for a moment and said: “If your not serious about what’s about to
happen, you better back out now.” I immediately fell to my knees. With a smile
my bull then handed me the card key and I lead my bull through the door. Once
inside, my bull commanded me to stop. “Get back down” he said. I again fell to
my knees before him. “Who owns you now?” he asked. “You do” was my reply. “Then
get to work.” He Said. With this, I unzipped his pants and let my left hand
grasp my bulls beautiful and enormous nine inch manhood. With one quick motion,
his member left its tight holster like briefs, and found a new home within my wet
and accommodating lips. I had handled my Bulls manhood before but had never
allowed myself to honor my bull by taking him orally. While only somewhat
erect, I found my bull’s member to still be quite a large endeavor for my mouth
but I worked my Bulls hot and swollen helmet deep into my throat as I had
practiced. I immediately glossed over my bulls tool with precision as it became
even more engorged and massive. As I continued to serve my role for my new
master, my bull removed his jacket, shirt and tie and pulled his pants and
briefs down further to allow me greater access to his beautiful and sculpted
black body. My hand quickly found purchase over his strong abs and dark hefty
scrotum. His large full black balls swung back and forth brushing against my
chin with ever push and pull mouth over his huge manhood. With more excitement
than I have ever shown for oral pleasure before, I removed my bull’s penis and
sucked his large and wonderful testicles into and then out of my mouth. Inside
my mouth, I could feel my bull’s heavy semen laden scrotum fill my mouths open
spaces as my tongue worked feverishly to bath my bull’s potency with every
ounce of saliva I could muster …..I had found nirvana.
After becoming fully erect my bulls instructed me to remove my clothing. As I
excitedly complied, I took a moment to survey the room. I saw that Steven had
somehow known that dinner would be skipped. On the coffee table I saw a various
assortment of my favorite candies, my brand of personal lubricant (which I
didn’t even come close to needing), a bottle of Champaign and my bull’s
favorite brand of beer. With my clothing removed, my bull then commanded me to
remove the comforter, sheets and pillows from the king sized bed. He then lay
spread eagle and motioned for me to continue my earlier work. As I crawled
toward my new owner and placed my lips once again at the summit of his
wonderful sexual power, my bull grabbed both of my ankles and tossed my body
into a sixty-nine position. My bulls tongue worked its way into and around my
sex as fervently as my mouth encompassed his penis. For what seemed like hours
of repeated orgasmic pleasure my bull explored my womanhood to climax. In
response I accommodated my bull’s entire length and girth to the best of my
ability. His groans and my cries of abandoned passion echoed throughout the
room. As his groans intensified I felt my bulls large ebony hands grasp firmly
into my frame and with one quick movement, he rolled over top of me. Almost
immediately, my bulls hips began to thrust his huge manhood deep into my throat
and then almost completely out once again. First it was at a manageable speed
that quickly escalated into a furious cadence of powerful protrusions into my
middle throat. At first I could feel my gag reflex go into full swing. Each
thrust lead my body to convulse in disagreement but I was physically powerless
to halt the proceedings. With time though, I began to marvel at the power and
skill my bull displayed in using my mouth as he saw fit. With each thrust I
encouraged my bull with muffed screams of pleasure while he continued to work
my sex with his knowledgeable oral skills.
When my bull had sufficiently fed his oral appetite for my now quivering
vagina, he stood up from the bed and instructed me to bring him a beer that
Steven had left. As I quickly retrieved the beer my excitement grew in the
knowledge of what would certainly come next. As my bull drank his beer on the
edge of the bed I used this opportunity to work my hands over his huge athletic
frame. His strong muscular back, attached to his wonderful buttocks that
connected to his long tree trunk like legs. All of these I knew would soon be
driving his large endowment into me repeatedly and I kissed them each in
reverence. When finished, my bull commanded me to open the drapes of the large
windows and to turn on every light in the room. “It’s time to show the world
how a black man Fucks” he loudly exclaimed. And after doing as commanded I
bounded onto the bed eagerly awaiting the sight myself.
My bull then took his rightful place in the bed my husband had prepared for us.
His body slid between my eager and open legs and our bodies became locked
together as if we had been made to do so. Both he and I had found our natural
places. He onto of me, dominating both my existence and directing my pleasure
and I receiving him and submitting myself to his desire. As we shared a long
and passionate kiss, his swollen and engorged manhood found a welcoming and
proud place of rest inside me. Slowly at first, he continued his pursuit deeper
and deeper into me until finally filling my womb as it had never been filled
before. I could feel his heartbeat pulsating deep within my loins and with each
beat; my sex stretched and became more accommodating to my bull. I thought
briefly of my husband and how I wasn’t only here for myself but also for him. I
was now ready. It was time to give my bull the only thing I had……everything. I
then cried out to my bull: “It’s yours, I’ve always been yours since we met”,
“Take it”.
As if being unleashed, my bull began thrusting himself into me and ever
increasing rhythms. With each thrust my body gave way to him encouraging him
forward to ever increasing heights of pleasure. Soon he was slamming his large
powerful body into me as if possessed. The sound of his large and potent balls
slapping my buttocks in a delightful expression of his ownership could only be
drowned out but my screams of pleasure. Over and over again my bull brought me
to climax. I could feel wave after wave of earth shattering orgasms pulse
throughout my body. Meanwhile my bull seemed unaware. I could tell he was in
the zone of delight and this made me feel as though I was doing my job and this
brought me so happiness. For forty-five wonderful minutes, my bull took my body
for his pleasure. I could feel his body becoming more and more tense as he
reached his own climax. I then thought back to our earlier conversations about
pregnancy and if that would be something he wanted. My bull had requested that
I begin birth control as he didn’t want to breed me immediately and because he
has three children already. I had complied but the birth control wouldn’t take
affect for three months. I knew that if he released inside of me it was a good
chance he would impregnate me. With this knowledge in the forefront of my mind
and his obvious climax fast approaching, I repositioned my legs behind is
buttocks locking his body to mine, bulled his back toward me and whispered in
his ear: “I want your seed”
The evening continued into morning. Every conceivable pleasure I could offer my
bull was given to him immediately. After copious and sometimes hour’s long
sessions we would lay in each others arms napping, eating and preparing for
more lustful endeavors. In the late morning, my body sore, tender and full of
my bull’s seed, we ordered breakfast to the room and then called Steven to come
collect me at the hotel as agreed upon. We made arrangements for my bull to
come over to our house the following week. I then got dressed and walked my
bull to the lobby. With a newly earned pride, I kissed my bull long and
passionately in front of the clerk at the front desk. My bull then departed and
I saw the look of serious curiosity from the hotels front desk staff. Moments
later Steven came into the lobby and also received a long and passionate kiss.
We then went home so I could share my night with him and take a much deserved
and satisfied rest.
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