I thought I would post some thoughts about my favorite kinks and experiences starting with my biggest, Anal sex. 

I have over the years heard lots of complaints and or questions around Anal, mainly focusing on "why do you like it, it hurts", its weird, etc etc. 

Tackling the obvious one first "it hurts" 

In my experience Anal only hurts if your not using enough lube or your to nervous/tense. Obviously practice makes perfect so having been inserting objects in my ass since I was a teenager I could at this point spit on my hand and insert a fairly large dildo/plug without much hassle. Thats not to say my ass isn't tight (because by god is it) its just that I'm relaxed and know what to do. 

If you find a position your comfortable in (squating or lying on your side for beginners) and exhale gently as you push in most things about the width of say a lipstick or carrot (lets say 2 inches wide) should slide in with little effort. Particularly if you first lube up, my favorite technique for lubing is to squirt it onto my fingers and then basically gently tap my fingers against my ass massaging lube into the hole, after a few moments its basically like a wet pussy and you can slide your finger into it. From that point I just smear lube over a butt plug and start lightly fucking my hole, progressing to bigger toys from there. 

I could go do that right now and be fucking a dildo, or cock in about 5 minutes without much difficulty at all. Again I'm not loose, I'm just relaxed and lubed up. If your not relaxed then anal probably wont be fun or comfortable as you tense up that muscle. 

The second one I get a lot is, its dirty

Honestly if you have gone to the toilet before you indulge in anal, then carefully wipe (using baby wipes is ideal) you should get practically no shit at all. If you start with a small butt plug any residual crap should come out pretty much straight away then its just a matter of wiping clean, re lubing and cracking on with a good long fuck. 

If you get shit, its because you need to shit and your ass is full (or your plowing very deep) but usually it means your in need of a crap. 

I am not a lover of shit, but I very regularly do ass to mouth with dildos and butt plugs (never do ass to pussy that is a great way to get a yeast infection)and suck dildos, plugs and cock clean. It doesn't taste of shit, and actually I like the taste, usually all it tastes of is the lube and a slightly sweet dampness (sorry difficult to explain)

The most ridiculous "article" I read about anal in a major publication suggested it was awful because afterwards cum might fall out of your ass at any time (assuming you went in bare back, hello safe sex anyone???) without warning. Given if you have bear back sex normally and shoot into your partners pussy upon standing up cum will fall out I fail to see how this is an issue or at all different. Don't get me wrong I farted the next day once and could tell I had just sprayed lube and cum into my pants. 

In fact a girl once turned to me at a pedestrian crossing just as the lights changed and just quietly said, "all your cum from last night just fell into my panties". then just walked off smiling. So clearly ass cum dropping out is not any different to "normal" bare back sex. 

Personally I like the feeling of cum dripping from my ass, it turns me on, but if thats not for you unprotected sex is probably not for you anyway. 

Lastly "why do you like it" 

There are entire books on this from a lot of much smarter people than I. The obvious take home from me though is, because I fucking love how it feels to get fucked in the ass. Everything about it from being submissive, physically feeling full, to the stimulation of nerves (I've cum from anal alone and it felt amazing, I was completely limp at the time my cock just started pissing cum and I couldn't stop gasping and shaking) Feels insane particularly if your not even hard at the time. 

I also like how dirty it makes me feel, and used. 

Obviously if your not interested then don't do it, but I would suggest trying it in a controlled relaxed way. And finally never use "numbing" gel or lube its really fucking stupid to numb the area so you don't know if it hurts aka if your tearing something. You should be able to have pretty intense anal without numbing anything. I've literally lubed up and slammed my ass against a huge dildo suctioned to a wall, without any pain at all because I was super relaxed and lubed up properly. Listen to your body if it actually hurts (as opposed to just feeling "weird" , "tight" ) then stop. 

Happy fucking campers 

Dirty dog boi out. :)