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I can't believe someone was mean enough to report your previous ageplay
gallery. What they think girls are not turned on until they're 21or
something! You ask any girl, we all fancied at least one of our friends
dads when we were very young, I guarantee it. Most girls are just not
interested in boys there own age!
Anyway I just wanted to say thank you for all your great galleries and glad you stayed a member on here.
Stay Cool
Ruby
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Hello Ruby,
Thank you
for your message and more importantly thank you for your support!! You may change your mind
after my long winded response, ha ha!
I agree
completely with your confusion with female sexuality. Obviously, as you know, women don't suddenly
become sexual beings at the age of 21.
As a historian by trade (and love), there has always been a move by men
("the patriarchy" if you will) to suppress a woman's sexuality. In the early 20th century for example, a
common treatment for "female hysteria" was for a doctor to induce orgasm using an
early vibrator. For many years the
idea/concept of the female orgasm was even denied. Still to this very day we have female circumcision
(where the clitoris is removed) to deny a woman sexual pleasure. Still to this day women have to battle the
idea that if they enjoy sex, or anything sexual they are a deviant or a
"slut" etc. Even in the 1950's
a woman could easily be committed to a mental hospital if she was caught
masturbating. However, I don't believe
that is why my Ageplay gallery was removed.
My second
Ageplay gallery was reported and removed (I believe), because of another widely
misunderstood concept, that of Ageplay itself.
Some people (a lot of people) believe because someone is attracted,
turned on, like etc, a girl (or boy) dressing up as a school girl or whatever,
that they must be a pedophile. Never
mind the fact I have never have and would never involve myself with anyone
under the age of 18. In fact I don't
even like talking to women under the age of 21 (the legal drinking age in the
United States), because I can't take them out for a drink. This also goes for the people who enjoy being
the "little" in Ageplay.
People will assume because someone likes to wear toddler clothes/diapers
etc, that they also must be a pedophile.
Just like if a boy likes to crossdress, he must be gay. All of this is complete BS, of course. Ignorance and intolerance is the real
problem.
Again, as
a historian I like to remind people that for thousands of years (up until very
recent times, say the last 50-70 years even), it was extremely common for a 15
year old girl to be married to a middle-aged man. In Roman times for example most girls were
considered adults and marriageable after their first periods (as early as 12 in
some cases). In most Asian cultures,
still to this day, acting cute/immature is considered sexy and desirable. I lived in China for a few years and it is
common for a 30 year old woman to have a collection of stuffed animals, for
example. Where as in Western cultures
prefer the sexy, independent, more mature version of women (overall, not
entirely).
Now I am
not suggesting we should return to those outdated practices. Modern medical and physiological evidence has
given us plenty of reasons why we have the 18 year old line (although age of
consent is still very young in many places).
My point is simply that for thousands of years this was a normal practice. Thousands of years has a way of programing
human nature. This could be one reason
why, you are right, many teenage girls have fantasies or are simply attracted
to older men. There is also a reason why
many girls/women actually prefer a more mature man (and lets face it, most men
don't become mature until their late 20s or older). This may also be one reason why men are
attracted to younger women (not to mention there is "innocent virgin"
aspect).
I must
also add, that Ageplay isn't always about sex, or anything sexual. I once had a "girl"friend that when
she fell into her "little" space, just wanted to play, color and do
all the things a little girl would do... nothing sexual at all. I was more than happy to provide that safe
and happy place for her! (and no, it wasn't a turn on for me either, ha ha).
Anway, my apologies for the long winded
response. I again thank you for your
support. I hope you continue to enjoy my
galleries. Remember, there is nothing
wrong with enjoying whatever it is that turns you on! If you like it, do it! You are not wrong. You're not dirty, weird or a deviant! Just remember to play by the rules of SAFE,
SANE and CONSENSUAL!
Caligula
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