J (50's wife) and I really enjoy coming up with ideas for, shooting and posting our galleries. I can't tell you how surprising it was to discover that my camera shy wife (she hated any pictures of herself) really got into it! But why post it for the world to see?

Let me begin by saying that we are proud of our work here. We work hard to make the best galleries that we can. And we enjoy it, a lot. We have had a lot of discussion as to why we do it though. And, in the end, we are as proud of our reasons as we are our product. I want to share those reasons with you.

1) There are a whole lot of lonely people out there; younger men trying to figure this whole sex/relationship thing out, and older men who may no longer have a partner, or are lonely with the one they have. We hope that something about our posts can help with all of that.

2) So much of pornography and erotica is dark, degrading and views women as mere objects. Now we have nothing against men and women getting off looking at our pictures (we hope they do), but we want to demonstrate that sex is not shameful, nor are women weak. J owns her sexuality. She is a woman who enjoys her life and her sex. Her and I are equals. She is nobody's "fuck meat". She is strong, sexy, and proud, and I hope that our pictures relect that. 

3) J is 58 years old. That's right, 58, and we are here to say that 58 can be very sexy! We hope to inspire others to be and see themselves as beautiful and desirable. Fuck age! It's attitude. 

4) It is a ton of fun and enhhances our relationship with each other. We have developed a creative partnership in doing this that we both really enjoy. Shared play makes for great relationship.

5) Like many women, J suffered from low self-esteem when it came to her looks and body.I would tell her how beautiful and sexy she was, but believing me was another matter (this inadequecy shit is drilled into womens heads from the day they are born). So I took pictures to show her how beautiful she is. Posting them, helped her to understand that it is not just my opinion! 

6) Finally, I am a very lucky (ridiculously so) man and I just want to share some of that with others. 

So, as crazy as it might sound, we do this make our world, and the world of some others, better, one picture at a time.