Dear young man, 

I thought today I would write about one of my favorite past times: art. I'm not any sort of artist, I'll be up front about that but I enjoy it imensely. I had noticed, shall we call it, erotic art a long time ago even in my teen years. There were several 'naughty ' comic books that were circulated secretly hand-to-hand on the schoolbus. I also recall seeing the imagery posted in lockers and later in garages / workshops of young men I dated.  There was plenty of 'real' porn also, but the fact that some men chose art always fascinated me.It wasn't until I started working in a university setting and actually studying erotica and psychology thereof that truly recaptured my focus.

Young men and women these days! LOL They play a lot of video games. They shave their pubic hair oftentimes. They consum a LOT of pornography. They engage in sex and sexual fantasy. Part of the fantasy that has been surprising and amusing to me is hentai and fantasy art . 

And that's when I feel like I found a piece of art that realy ...just suddenly.. resonated with me. This one picture seemed to open my perspective to it...Just a silly image of a girl in sexual rapture, riding on some hardly seen man below her, with sex toys and condom wrappers all around them on the bed.. that was me! Instant memories! I was raised by hippie parents in the San Francisco bay area, and my upbringing was not without its perks.. Rather than the protracted time of hiding sex or being encouraged to remain celebate etc, as a teen ager, my parents caught on that I liked a certain young man in my class. They were sure to get to know his parents, and without either he or i knowing it, they began arranging 'play dates' of a sort for us. Basically, he and his parents would come over. The parents would sit upstairs and drink wine and listen to overtly loud music and say they were going to discuss our college tuitions etc. And we were free to just 'hang out.' The entire lower level of my parents house was essentially the guest room. A suite. Fridge. Living room. TV. Bathroom.   

Bedroom.

Shower.

You see where this is going. You see, rather than making a big deal of it, our parents basically just arranged for sex to start happening in a safe environment for us. And oh-my-fucking-god it was great! He was my first boyfriend. Dated for the entirety of our junior year. But yes.. *sigh* that picture ... memories! 

If you've read my previous blogs, you might have seen some other favorites of mine, for instance nearly any of the drawings by Tom Poulton . They are just so beautiful and ernest and real, which in some ways makes them sexier than flat-out pornography. One particular highlight of his that I love is a sort of coming of age image . A couple relaxing together in a hammock.. a warm day?Why do i get the instant impression she is the woman of the house, hot and bored, and he is the hired help to trim the hedges? And now, with her encouragement and unwavering attention, is going to learn the ways of men and women. No doubt a slow tender experience at first...until his adrenaline kicks in and graduates to groping and thrusting like an animal. He'll be shocked by the whole experience, she'll calmly tell him to return the next day for the front hedges..

 Another absolute favorite of his is one of a couple in lust .. so simple, carefree.. the kissing begins... the pants come off.. she's got nothing on under her dress... somebody's about to be ridden by somebody else.  Tom Poulton created nearly countless works, and they are a joy and pleasure to view! But, like any picture of something real.. sex being something very real... he did pictures that touched on other aspects of how it can be. I like this image of a man seated, a woman before him, softly smiling..both of them holding themselves. Their genitals. What has the pleasure brought them to? Can they ever really understand or comprehend it? She looks whistful but confidant.... he, frankly, looks a little upset! LOL What has she DONE to him? To his mind? To his soul?  Hehe.. she's ridden and fucked and sucked and been bent-over the chair and humped to his absolute delight.. but also to his capture... she has him now. The pleasures his penis has learned will not be soon forgotten, and she knows she has him by the balls. Whatever kind of man he may be in his outside life, SHE knows what he is, what she's made him into.. she's made him into her erotic play thing . His mind softened and given into the eros. A big part of his life is now going to be taken up by SEX.  Kind of a dirty beautiful blessing and curse. Do you ever feel like that, young man? Don't feel bad. It happens to the best of us. Women too.

Mmm... something, though, that I've also learned is that erotic art can posess a certain power or influence. They sometimes have an uncanny way of slipping into your mind . A warning, though... can be a little addictive if you let it. I'm sure you're strong willed. Able to avoid temptation.  (Actually, if you're, say, a 23 yo man you literally won't be able to quite get a grip on it.. which is what makes my showing you this so delicious and naughty)

For instance it seems like this shows the situation of a young man who is dealing with a couple of succubi who appear in his room each night... sapping his energy... draining him of his life essence.. through his penis.  For as incredible as the pleasures are that they bring, it makes it more and more difficult to focus on his studies and his art by day... he has begun to fall behind... but still the succubi persist...   He wakes, they are there.. he is already aroused by their touches and their tongues... he pleads with them... they have strapped him down. They will have his pleasure.  "No!  Please.. pleaEEase......OH! OHHHHHHH! fuckk. ... oh fuck me.. no.....   he passes out...

From the standpoint of a psychologist, i think that these can be remarkably intense .. maybe that's an understatement...mm?? The stories they tell are vivid in a way that sort of goes right to your head... he's 24... she's 36. She's gotten him used to SCREWING her brains out in her condo. Such  a pretty picture! Look at the fucking NUTS on him.. bigger than his brains, and she knows it.

But then, even if you HAVE brains... if you're smart, creative, diciplined, got it together... even with brains, a woman can generally, given the proper opportunity, find a way around all of those things... She can find a way to absolutely undo you, young man..

 Now im wondering... since it seems like I have your undivided attention... which i MUST if you read this far... you are also holding an erection, aren't you...? What should I DO with you?

 You really didn't count on my little tour of art affecting you this way did it? Or perhaps you did. I'm really just playing...trying.. projecting.. but i feel like I have found a way..

to connect.  

Or at the very least, to begin the naughty process of fucking hotwiring your brain for pleasure .
Mhmm.. it can be an intense and drawn out process. Something I take a great deal of pride and joy in accomplishing. 

Want to try a little *focusing* exercise? It's the perverted verson of something I have students do.  I have them focus intently at an image. In this case, im going to show you an image, and I want you to NOT look away. And while you look at it, i want you to say something out-loud ten times. 

Out loud. It's important that you can hear your own voice, ok?

Out loud, please repeat, "Erection" and focus on this image please....

And now, out loud, please repeat, "Ejaculation" ten times. And focus on this ...

Mmmhmmm... what are you feeling? Shhh.. easy... focus..

Out loud, "Erectiion" said ten times while keeping  focus ...

 And once more with the word , "Ejaculation " ten times.. focus on this while saying it..

 ... take deep breaths.  How do you feel? What is happening there for you?

mmmm... i think... we're ready again..

Please say out loud, "semen rising to the tip"  ten times.... focus  ..

Now is the time of the night I'd like to show you something fun as well as interesting about what we've done here - you and I - to your mind... 

When you see this little image, i think you will *suddenly* understand what i mean.

When you see it i want you to just literally shout out, "Oh FUCKING-GODDAMNIT!" like you mean it.. LOUD.. can you do that for me?

This is for you:  Remember to shout it out LOUD.

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