Of all the dirty things I've learned of the psychology & physiology of sex, one delightful thought has been this: With young creative men in particular, there is a realy parallel connection your ability to express yourself creatively through your art... and simply wasting that creative emotional energy through the physicality of your orgasms. An orgasm is a powerful emotional thing. And it uses the same 'reward pathways' in a man's mind as does creative achievement.

Speaking from the standpoint of a woman who delights in erotic play and sort of the consummate sexualizing of your life, this is aparticularly dirty thought.  I can use my body.. my hands, my tongue, my cunt... to make you SQUIRT away your aspirations. Your hopes and dreams.

This could have been a beautiful poem.....

CUMMY-CUMMY-CUMMY!   TEE HEE HEE!