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Hi Lisa Blogging again...
I laugh at the term "Wife Sharing".
Let me be clear, my husband is not sharing me with other men. The choice is entirely
my own. My husband really went into our relationship back when we were "seeing each other"
we rarely dated. "Dating" is not the correct word. Bill was a traditional guy. I saw who he was
and kept him in my "Rotation", he got pissed and I encouraged him to see other people but our
time was our time. It took a few months and plenty of honest discussions to make it work.
I also had to delve into his jealousies and heartbreaks to turn that pain and fear into arousal
and excitement. Jacking him off while he told me stories of cheating, betrayal, friend zoning
and unrequited love.
I fueled it by imagining how good it felt to be a woman inflicting that emotional pain upon him,
always made it sound like there were other men in these women's lives.
Never tried this with my previous boyfriends but he was clearly a submissive, plus I was in LOVE.
In time, he was not only cooperative but became complicit and encouraging. As ass-backwards as it
sounds if he had not been trainable. We would have never gotten married. 28 years later. We work.
Is he sharing his wife? NO ! I am making the choices. If he set me up on fuck date or cuckold scene
the answer would be NO !! Maybe after meeting the guy and seeing if we had chemistry but Wife
Sharing? No...
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