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Hi Lisa Blogging away for the first time in a long time.
Been a difficult year and my spark has felt like it had almost burned out until a few weeks ago.
My husband has been patient most of the time. Our swinging and private sex life have slowed considerably.
OK, some nice imagefap user posted a comment on one of our galleries that jogged my memory of
a guy who has not been around for years, even decades. My long-term "Partner in Crime" as
we call each other was called overseas for an extended assignment. He is still alive, older black
his name starts with an "A". He was a marine in Vietnam and went to the DOD, spent 50 years
in military service. He was always my protector, older brother type but needless to say, we fucked
on occasion, especially when he was married.
"A" asked for his fellow military and about 20 years his junior friend John which his real name to
"look in on me". Having trouble remembering if my husband and I were married or just living together at
the time. 90% certain we were married.
He called me up and told me A asked him to look in on me, maybe we could meet and have coffee, a beer or any way
I could duck out the house for a while. My husband was working predictable or longer hours than usual. Yes, you name the place nearby and we will meet.
We met, hit it off all the way around, made him laugh, he was fit, tall, black which is not something I am into but a hot guy can be any color in my opinion. Would I marry a black man? Not back then, now post menopause? If divorced or widowed, not closed to the idea.
We discussed my marital arrangement. Kinda wish in retrospect we just did it then and there.
John took control "I do not want you to wear your wedding ring or anything that reminds you of him" When we go out,
you are single, it is ME and YOU and no one else. We set a time for our date.
Talked to my husband about it. He bitched about it a bit but surrendered quickly. He had not fully accepted he was never going to be the ONLY one sexually yet.
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