This is the best BDSM list of questions I've ever seen - and my answers

Are you looking for full time D/s or P/t: 24/7 when husband is away from home (usually 2-3 wks at a time)
Are you a SUB or SLAVE:  I am a sub butwould easily become a mans slave
Do you Smoke:   I do not
Do you Smoke POT: How Much:  I don’t
Drug User: How Much:   I do not
Do you Drink: How Much:   I do not
Your Name your Phone #  Clare - only real that would visit or I can go to get my phone
Your Location Your Interest in Serving  Below Abingdon VA (near the center of the circle on my map)
Types of play :
SCALE Rating is as follows Your experience? Answer please with YES or NO if youhave experienced this and your # showing your desire to explore this no matterwhat your experience is.
?? Unsure what that means
0 - No interest at all (Might consider doing it once)
1 – Slight interest but does not turn me on (But will do it if pleases Master)
2 – Have little experience but an interest in learning more
3 – Med Turn On (Have experience in this and want more)
4 – High Turn On ( I enjoy it a lot)
5 – Extreme Turn On (I want this all the time) What ever Master wants
These things can be modified if you have kids or no kids please just fill inthe blanks as of interest
ALL OF THE QUESTIONS BELOW REQUIRE :
YES/NO answer and desire # 0-5 from the list on willingness to do.
Do you have any names that you wish your Master to call you by: (please listthem below)
Misc Questions
Having a romantic dinner by candlelight?  Yes, 5
Having a nite out and told to wear a chastity belt?   Yes, 5
Sucking Masters cock while driving?  Yes, 3
Pulling Master aside in a mall in private and sucking his cock  No, 5
Sucking Masters cock in an elevator.  No, 5
I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl?   Yes, 5
I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me?   No, 5
I love fear and turns me on when Master just takes me and has his way withme?.  YES!!! 5!!!
A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself?   No, 5
My partner and I are making love in a public place?   Yes, 4
I am are sold on a slave market?  No,hummmm J
I am used or displayed on the internet for money?   No, 5
I am used to make money for my master prostitution?   No, 2
I am willing to support my master financially? No, 0
I am used or rent out to other doms for money with master present?  Yes, 4
I am used as a slave in public?  No, 4
I am used by other doms?   YES!!! 5!!!
I am rented to other doms for money? Yes,4
I am used as a slave in private?   Yes, 5
I am ordered to please others?   Yes, 5
I am a little schoolgirl?  No, 3
I am willing to act as a bimbo slut?  Yes, 5!!!
I am willing to dress like a prostitute?  Yes, 5
I am willing to wear heavy slutty make up?  Yes!!! 5!!!
I am willing to have my clothes picked out for me daily?   Yes, 4
I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet?  Yes, 5
I am are tied and teased?   YES!!!, 5!!!
I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom?  YES!!!, 5!!!
I am used as a dog, pony or pet?  Yes, 4
I am told to sleep in a cage?  No, 0
I am always to wear a collar anywhere I am with my master in private?  Yes of course! 5
I am to eat my breakfeast, lunch or dinner out of a bowl?  No, 0
I am to wear my make-up how Master likes to see me.  Yes of course! 5
I am verbally humiliated? Mmmm yesss, 5
I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone? Yes, 4
I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped? Yes, what kind of whip?
I am interested in participating in a glory hole? (sucking unknown men thru ahole)  Yes, 4
I am interested in jerking off other men  YES!!! 5!!!
I am interested in getting gang banged (4-10 men)  Oh gawd YES!!! 5!!!
I am interested in playing with another couple Yes, 5
I am interested in getting fucked by another male (couple swapping)   yes, 5
I want my physical limits are tested and stretched?  YES!!!! 5!!!
I want my emotional limits are tested and stretched? Yes, 4
I am willing to sign a sub/slave contract? Yes, 5
I am a total slave every day of the week when with Master?  YES!!! 5!!!
I want my Master to use me at anytime without question or hesitation?    YES!!! 5!!!
I am willing to wear anything my Master desires at home/public? Yes of course,5
I enjoy Master making me do things that I would not normally do? Yes, 4
I want Master to use any of my holes at anytime regardless of where we arewithin reason?  YES!!! 5!!!
I love to watch Master use other subs/slaves Yes I do! 5
I am Bi and I love to participate with another sub/slave   Yes, ohh absolutely 5
I love to watch Master fuck other subs/slaves Yes, 5
I love to be used anyway that will make Master happy when playing with others.YES!!!, 5!!!
Hair, Make-Up Nails, Jewelry, High heels (Also include color choices where
possible)
I like my hair up  No
I like my hair down Yes and free to grab
I like my hair styled  No
I like my hair permed  Sometimes
I like my hair crimped   no
I like changing my hairstyles  no
I like wearing Red Lipstick   MyFAVORITE!
I like wearing Pink Lipstick  If Masterwishes
I like wearing Purple Lipstick  If Masterwishes
I like wearing Black Eyeshadow   Yes
I like wearing Blue Eyeshadow   Yes
I like wearing Pink Eyeshadow   Yes
I like wearing Black Eyeliner   Yes
I like wearing Blue Eyeliner   Yes
I like wearing Purple Eyeliner  Yes
I like long nails French Manicure  I do!
I like long nails Painted  Yes
I like long nails Plain  No – any womanshould have them painted, I love bright red
I like long nails Glossy  Yes
I like long nails Styled  shrug
I like wearing rings  yes
I like wearing neck chains  yes
I like wearing earings (Plain)   yes
I like wearing earings (Hoops)  yes
I like wearing earings (Stylish)  yes
I can wear high heels 3” I can!
I can wear high heels 4”  I can!
I can wear high heels 5”  Hurts my feetbut will
I can wear high heels 6”  Only forlimited time
I can wear high heels 7”  Really? For aBBW???
I can wear ballet boots  no
Types of Clothing or Fabric:
Leather  Yes
Rubber, latex  Yes
Patent leather,  Yes
Sexy lingerie  Oh YES
Uniforms  If Master wants
Denim  boring except on master
High Heels  Yes
Boots  hummm…
Wet suits ???  no
Servants uniform  Oh of course!
Masks  For me? No, I want my face visibleunless Master wants otherwise
Others, please specify:
Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
Your bedroom  Of course!
A dungeon, castle  Oh GAWD YES!!!
Churches and abbeys No
Farms and stables  Yes!
Barracks  Ohhh gangbang? YES!
Abandoned construction sites  mmm yessss
Back alleys  Am I a slut? YES!
The red light district  I don’t want tocompete with paid girls
A school or a classroom  Ohhh wicked…yes
BDSM-clubs  Oh of course silly!
Estates  Yes
Junkyards and car dumps  hummm…no
Woods and forests  Yes
Medieval scenery  Oh gawd YES
Nudist beaches  My pussy would bedripping - yes
Parking spaces  um…no
Truck stops  yes
The bath room  yes (great place forgolden showers too!)
Hospital, dentist  boring
Interrogation room  Only if promised tobe forcibly stripped J
The shrink's couch  He can learn by doing
Boot camp  nahhh
Jail, police station  maybe
Others, please specify:
I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to   Yes
Dialogue in normal language   Yes
Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")  absolutely YES
Obey rules or else  Yes, and I *will*misbehave!
Reasonable rules  Yawn sure
Unreasonable rules  Hummmm maybe
It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper No it isn’t but he may lose hispatience
Swearing and filthy talk  YES!
Military/jail type commands  no
Strict training  YES!
Obvious and explicit role play   yes
Subtle role play   yes
Total Sadistic Master (No warmup)  I’mvery much a masochist but he must observe a safeword
I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded um…no…command me!
Whatever Master wants  pretty much yes
Make me feel guilty   no, if I dosomething wrong or misbehave I expect punishment
Make me feel cheap  yes
Make me feel used  YES
Make me feel owned  YES
Make me feel useless  NO
Make me feel worthless  mayyyybe J
Degreade me me any way  could be fun
Objectify me as in?
The dominant must have compassion  atleast some
The dominant must have no compassion at all at least some
The dominant must only have compassion after the scene no
Others, please specify:
Sex and sexuality
I need to be sexually aroused when in scene no, it comes on by itself
I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene  no
I like as many orgasms as I can get  well of course silly!!!
An orgasm turns me off  HA, no.
An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward of course
An orgasm is a must to end the scene  yes
Orgasms are not important, but nice  duhno
Orgasms are not important at all  theyARE!
I want to beg for an orgasm first  no
I want my sexual abilities to be stretched YES YES YES!!!
I want/need sex during a scene  sometimes
I love to have cum all over my face  YES!!!
I love to have cum all over my breasts  YES!!!
I love to have cum inside of me  Oh HECKYESSS!!!
I love to have cum on my ass  I do!
I love to have cum in my ass  I do!!!
I love to lick cum from Masters Cock  Ido!!!
I love to lick cum from the floor  I will!
I love to lick cum from a plate/bowl  Iwill!
I love to lick cum from anywhere it lands Pretty much
I am a Cum Slut give it to me  I AM!
I want no sex during a scene what? Wheres the door out of here…
Sex should be used to relieve the tension yes
Anal sex should the slave be required to have an enema before anal  No but it is nice
Should a slave be humiliated to clean her masters cock if there is shit on it?  Well…yes
Piss play should a slave be required to drink her own or masters piss on aregular basis?  YES!!!
Others, please specify:
I love the following attributes – I’m sorry but I rate a Dom/Master by what HEhas…
Ropes
Leather cuffs and belts
Steel cuffs and chains
Ball and chain
Blindfold
Gags
Masks
Nipple clamps and clothespins
Whips
Riding crops
Canes
Silk to be tied with
Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
Needles and pins
Cross, rack
Bondage table
Cage
Sling
Body bag
Others, please specify:
The following scenes appeal to me:
Being tied up, caressed and loved  YES
Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way yes
Being taken out with collar and leash  Ihave and would
Being locked up and left alone  boring
Being tied up in a comfortable position  yes
Being tied up in discomfort  sometimes
Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed YES
Being tied up and tickled  no tickling!!!
Being tied up and (sexually) teased  YES
Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned shuuuu…I want to explore these
Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having tomaintain these  whimper
Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed  see above
Being spanked in the traditional way  yes
Rough sex/being "raped"  YES!!!
Used as a servant  yes
Being tied and tortured  um…yes.
Being tortured without being tied or cuffed Hows this fun?
Being used by more than one dominant  YES
Playing in combination with other couples yes
Safe words and signals  yes
The dominant should establish one or more safe words  yes
When I cry, the scene should  ABSOLUTELYCONTINUE!
I should be able to communicate in plain language no
The dominant should be able to read my body language  yes
I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal  YES
All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal  NO just ease up and let me catch my breath
I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignoredcompletely  no
When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene cancontinue  yes
A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal  no, beyond
The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible  yes
Activities:
Abrasion – yes but not to rawness
Age play - boring
Anal sex – oh gawd give it to me
Anal Sex Forced – YES!!!
Anal Plugs (small) - yes
Anal Plugs (large) - yes
Anal Plug (public, under clothes) – mmm yes
Animal Role (Pony Girl) – no idea
Animal Role (Dog) – no unless theres a real one
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) - yessss
Asphyxiation – NO!
Ass (Rimming/Licking) – Ohhh I do give (and take)
Ass tongueing  - see above
Baby Soother – no idea
Barking Like a Dog - no
Bathroom use control (Inside House) yes
Bathroom use control (outside House) yes
Bathroom use control (Public) yes
Behavior Restrictions (Home)  yes
Behavior Restrictions (Public)  yes
Bestiality (Dog/Horse) – WOW that’s here? Yes to dog and want other
Beating (Soft) - yes
Beating (Hard) – don’t leave lasting marks and no cuts PLEASE
Belt/Strap – I’ve a cushy bottom, yes
Blindfolds – oh yessss
Being Serviced (sexual)  - plead do!
Being Bitten – um…gently
Breast/Chest Bondage – YES!!!
Breath Control - no
Branding (Permenant) – ask in person J
Boot worship - no
Bondage Breast – YES!!!
Bondage Outdoors - yes
Bondage In bed at nite - yes
Bondage (Light) - yes
Bondage (Heavy) - YES
Bondage (Extreme) – pls explain
Bondage (Multi-Day) - Yes
Bondage (public, Under Clothing) - yes
Bondage Full Body - no
Bondage Restraint Duration (0-2 hours) - yes
Bondage Restraint Duration (2-4 hours) - yes
Bondage Restraint Duration Overnite – no – well maybe
Breast whipping – YES!
Brown showers (scat)  - NO!!!
Cages (locked inside of) - no
Caning – maybe J
Catheterization - yes
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) - maybe
Cervix penetration – lets explore!
Chastity belts - yes
Chaueffering - sure
Chained and collared to bed at nite - mabe
Choking - no
Clothespins - yes
Cock Worship – YES!
Collars (Worn in private) - yes
Collars (Worn in public) - yes
Collar and leash at nite - yes
Competitions (with other Subs) – I’ll win!
Corsets (Wearing) - yes
Crawling - some
Cuffs (Leather) - yes
Cuffs (Metal) - yes
Cupping - yes
Cutting - no
Dilation - yes
Diapers-  no
Dirty Sex (Hard & Verbally) - yes
Double Penetration Toys - YES
Double Penttration (Cock) – OHHH YESSSS!!!
Duct taped – hummm….yes
Eating (Food From Dog Dish) - no
Eating from Masters hand - yes
Eating (Real Dog Food) – heck NO
Eating (Real Horse Food)- heck NO
Electricity- TENS yes!
Enemas (Recieveing) - yes
Emema Facials - yes
Enforced chastity - yes
Examinations (physica - yesl)
Exercise (forced/required) – do I have to?
Exhibitionism (friends) - yes
Exhibitionism (strangers) – wicked…yes
Eye contact restrictions - yes
Face slapping (soft) - yes
Face slapping (hard) - NO
Facials (Cum) – YES!!!!!!!!!!
Facials (Golden Shower) – YES!!!!!!!
Fantasy Abandonment - no
Fantasy Rape – YES!
Fantasy Gang-Rape – YES!
Fear - some
Figging (Ginger Root Anally) – no idea
Fingering Vaginally - yes
Fingering Anally - yes
Fireplay - willing
Fisting (Anal) - maybe
Fisting (Vaginal) - YES
Fisting (Anal) – you asked this
Following orders  - sometimes (wink!)
Foot worship - blech
Food restrictions - maybe
Food (what to eat) - maybe
Forced dressing - yes
Forced homosexuality – I’m bi how can your force that?
Forced masturbation - yes
Forced Oral (Throat Fucked) – YES!!!
Forced nudity (private) - yes
Forced nudity (around others - yes)
Forced servitude - yes
Full head hoods – if wished
Gags (cloth) - yes
Gags (rubber) - yes
Gags (tape) - yes
Gas Masks – huh?  Oh…yes.
Gates of Hell (male) – want to see my husband in this!!!
Genital sex – of course!
Given away to another Dom (temp) - yes
Given away to another Dom - yes
Golden showers (Breasts) – YES!!!
Golden shower (Ass) – YES!!!
Golden shower (Face) – YES!!!
Golden shower (Swallowing) – YES!!!
Golden shower (pee on yourself) - Yes
Golden shower (Pee in pot/bowl/cup) - Yes
Gun Play - NO
Hairbrush spankings - yes
Hair pulling (soft) - yes
Hair pulling (Hard) - some
Hair pulling dragging to floor (Forced) - no
Hand jobs (giving) - yes
Hand jobs (receiving) - yes
Harems (serving w/other subs) - yes
Harnessing (leather) - yes
Harnessing (rope) - yes
Having food chosen for you - ok
Having clothing chosen for you - ok
Head (giving fellatio) – YES!!!
Head (receiving fellatio) – well I’m I woman so I’ll take the other J
Head Harnesses - yes
High heel worship – me?
High Heel Shoes wearing - yes
High Heel Boots wearing - yes
High Heels Public (Shopping) - yes
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) - yes
Hot oils (on genitals) – um…YES
Hot waxing - YES
Housework (doing) – ugh, yes
Human Puppy Dog - no
Humiliation (private) - yes
Humiliation (public) - yes
Hypnotism - yes
Ice cubes- yes
Infantilism - no
Initiation rites – hummm…yes
Injections – depends
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage - no
Interrogations - maybe
Kidnapping – for sex yes
Kneeling - yes
Knife Play – maybe…
Labia Clips – yes!
Leather clothing - yes
Leather restraints - yes
Lectures for misbehavior – n0, punishment
Licking (non-sexual) – what?
Made to Beg - yes
Manacles & Irons - yes
Manicures (giving) - yes
Massage (giving) - yes
Massage (receiving) - yes
Medical scenes – no idea
Modeling for erotic photos – ohhh yesss
Mouth bits - yes
Mummification - no
Name change - yes
Nipple clamps – YES!!!
Nipple weights - Yes
Oral/anal play (rimming) - YES
Over-the-knee spanking - YES
Orgasm denial - yes
Orgasm control - yes
Outdoor scenes - yes
Outdoor sex - yes
Pain (Mild) - yes
Pain (winching not crying) - YES
Pain (Made to cry) - YES
Pain (Make me feel it Master) – show me
Paddling- yes
Personality Modification - ok
Plastic Shrink Wrap - no
Phone sex (serving Dom) – yes, once relationship established
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) – why not
Photos taken of you - YES
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) - yes
Piercing (permanent) - yes
Pinching Breasts - yes
Pinching Clit - yes
Pinching Ass - yes
Prison scenes - maybe
Pony slave- explain
Prostitution (Real) - nahhh
Prostitution (Scene) - yes
Public Exposure (Flashing) - yes
Public Humiliation -  yes
Puppy Play - no
Pussy/Cock Whipping – YES!!!
Pussy Worship - yes
Riding Crops - yes
Riding the "Horse" (crotch tort.) – yes!
Rituals - yes
Rented out to another Dom – YES!
Religious scenes - no
Riding Crops - yes
Restrictive rules on behavior – yes (rules are made to be broken)
Rubber/latex clothing - yes
Rope body harness - yes
Saran wrapping - no
Scratching – getting - yes
Scratching – giving - yes
Sensory deprivation - no
Serving - yes
Serving as art - yes
Serving as ashtray - no
Serving as furniture- no
Serving as pet- no
Serving as a maid- yes
Serving as toilet-yes but not for scat
Serving as waitress/waiter- yes
Serving orally (sexual)-yes
Serving other doms (supervised)- yes
Sexual deprivation (short term)- yes
Sexual deprivation (long term)- no
Shaving (body hair)- of course
Shaving (head hair) - no
Sleep deprivation- no
Sleepsacks- hummmm
Sleeping on floor- really? no
Sleeping in cage- no
Slings and Sex Swing – YES!!!!!
Slutty clothing (private)- yes
Slutty clothing (public)- yes
Spanking- yes
Spandex clothing- yes
Speech restrictions (when, what)- yes
Speculums (Anal)- yes
Speculums (vaginal)- yes
spitting (spit in your face or mouth)- yes
Spreader bars- yes
Standing in corner-no
Stocks-yes
Straight jackets-no…well maybe
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)- no
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) - yes
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) - yes
Strapping (full body beating)- lets find out
Struggling - yes
Suspension (upright)- yes
Suspension (inverted)- no
Suspension (horizontal) - yes
Supplying new partners for Dom- yes
Swallowing semen- YES!!!
Swallowing urine- YES!!!
Swallowing scat- NO!!!!!!!!
Swapping (with one other couple)- yes
Swinging (multiple couples)- yes
Tasting yourself- yes
Tattooing- yes
Teasing- yes
TENS/EMS Electric Stimulator- yes
Tickling- no!
Triple penetration – ohh gawd YES!!!
Uniforms- yes
Urethreal Insertions- yes
Vaginal Dialtions- yes
Vaginal Dildo- yes
Verbal Humiliation- yes
Vibrator on genitals- yes
Voyeurism (watching others)- yes
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)- yes
Video (watching others)- yes
Video (recordings of you)- YES!
Violet Wand- YES!
Water torture or waterboarding- no
Wearing symbolic jewelry- yes
Whipping (Back)- take me into it
Whipping (Breats)- YES!
Whipping (Pussy)- YES!
Whipping (Feet)- yes
Whipping (Short Dressage Whip)- what is this?
Whipping (Flogger)- yes
Whipping (Cat-o-nine tails)- train me
Whipping (Bullwhip)- gawd no
Whipping (Crops)- YES
Whinning like a Dog- no
Wooden paddles- yes
Wrestling-no, take me!

As a sub or slave you will beverbally abused by a Dom using verbal humiliation in private/public (ie: Bitch,Cunt, Slut, Whore, Cock Sucker, Cum slut etc.) These are sometimesnon-negotiable with your Mistress/Master.

This is for the Dom/Master todiscover. I have no health issues