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Double Standards
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Is it wrong to have double standards?
I would kill my husband if I found out that he was having an affair. I think I have even threatened cutting off his balls if I ever found out he was having one.
I am even dead against him having a fmf with me. I came close to trying one with him and a close friend of mine some 15 years ago now. It got as far as skinny-dipping with her and him but then nothing more eventuated and I don't know if I was relieved or disappointed. Part of me was certainly curious to see it, but a huge part was worried he'd enjoy it too much.
So this is where there double standards are. See I love the idea of having another guy join us and being free to have sex with both hubby and the other guy. I have no issues at all with it and don't expect my husband to either. And I don't know if that is really a bad thing or not. I mean I still want him there as a part of it but don't see adding another guy as a threat, wheras I see another woman as a threat.
Just a thought.
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Posted on : Mar 14, 2018
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Commented on Aug 24, 2025
It seems to me that many men are able to enjoy their partner enjoying the attention of other men and women and in fact love to see or even just hear about their partners orgasmic experiences. Giving and allowing pleasure is one of life’s greatest joys
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Commented on May 23, 2025
You need to update your blog. I want to know how things have gone. MMF is a fantasy and I wonder if it makes me bicurious and if you are jealous if they engage in MM activities while also including you. I long to experience the feeling of another cock working one hole while I work the other with just a thin layer of flesh between us.
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Commented on Apr 25, 2018
Looks like you will have to bite the bullet at least once. He will be looking for that experience. I would say he isn't worried because of his love for you and wanting you to be happy and the relationship to remain secure. Take your time and you my have to forgo your misgivings about the FFM to keep the status quo so to speak.
good Luck to you I hope you find the right woman to join with you both.
P.S don't forget to post the pics.... :)
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Commented on Mar 21, 2018
I do understand what you guys are saying. It is quite hypocritical. We have spoken about mmf scenarios and have experienced a couple and I know that he hasn't been worried by it. As I mentioned in my blog, we have also attempted a couple of ffm but are yet to be successful in that scenario.
I do thank you for your thoughts.
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Commented on Mar 19, 2018
It's wrong in my opinion to have a double standard. You don't want an another women in the mix out of fear he might like her more than you but you think it's perfectly fine to have an another man to join you two.
You can't assume he would be fine with an another guy in the mix. It has to go both ways in the relationship.
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Commented on Mar 17, 2018
Have you asked him?
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Commented on Mar 15, 2018
as a guy, i would probably feel the same way as you - ok with FFM, but not MMF.
as far as MMF, most men don't know how to satisfy their women so the women needs 2 to be satisfied
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