Allie read my blog entry while she had her breakfast in bed and I admired her sensual beauty, although she kept herself covered, her bare arms, neck and beautiful face and tousled hair were a real privelage to are upon.

After she had eaten, Allie went through m my blog entry and helped me to develop my understanding and how I can work to not let myself down.

These are the things that Allie helped me see. Hopefully they can also be of use to other wimp husbands:

1. My wife is sexier when she is enjoying the company of real men. If I want to share in this wonderful aspect of her sensuality, I must actively embrace and support these situations.

2. As our marriage is all about Allie's pleasure, it goes against the nature of our relationship for me to express negative feelings or make requests. If Allie wants to do something, she will. I have no role in making suggestions unless they are asked for.  

3. As I accept my wife as the beautiful woman whose sensuality and sexuality dwarfs what I am sexually, by being jealous I am denyi the truth of her as a woman and insulting her. My pettiness and jealousy are ugly and destructive to what should be a beautiful thing.

4. By being petty and jealous I simply create my own misery and Ostrisice myself when I could be allowed to participate in my wife's sensuality if I adopted the correct attitude.

5. I am exceedingly lucky to have a wife who is strong enough to lead this marriage, and should be grateful every day instead of being a pathetic and annoying wimp.