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The Art of Submission- Dealing with Bad Moods & yet being a Submissive Wife
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Submitting when you aren’t feeling submissive.
As a submissive wife, who has promised to submit to my
husband, I find that there are days when I don’t really
feel like submitting. Maybe I woke up in a bad mood
or I am having a stressful day. Maybe I got some really
upsetting news that I am having trouble dealing with.
It could be any reason really, but at that moment,
my submissive side is just no where to be seen.
It’s during those times when it is imperative that
absolutely do continue to submit. If I give in to
my momentary desire to do as I please instead
of how my husband prefers, this lends itself to
further distancing from my goal of submission.
It’s like you step away from that soft, loving, side
and you become hard in that moment.
When the desire to submit comes from the heart,
it is so much easier to maintain submission. But,
it isn’t realistic to think that every day of our lives
and every moment of our day, we will always feel
like submitting.
So what happens if we give in to that feeling and
choose not to submit? For me, I may feel justified
in the moment but that feeling will be short lived.
I always regret when I don’t choose submission.
I see the disappointment on my husband’s face
and I know I have let him down. I know I have
made the wrong choice. This hurts my heart to
know I have displeased him and it hurts the trust
my husband has given me by my promise to
submit to him.
Those times when I push through that feeling of
not wanting to submit, give me strength to continue
on. The inner submissive feelings return more
quickly and I have satisfaction knowing I did not
give up or give in to that desire to stray from my path.
I find joy knowing I have remained submissive.
It’s like I am a runner, and I have overcome this
incredible obstacle to stay the course. My husband
appreciates the effort and I know I have pleased
him. It’s a good feeling.
It’s also helpful to remind yourself why you have
chosen to submit. For me, it was a desire to be
the type of wife my husband longed for. I was
naturally a submissive person.
I wanted this man as my husband and he wanted
a submissive wife. I agreed to do whatever I needed
to become that wife.
I found that when I truly submitted, our marriage
was better and more fulfilling. ❤️❤️❤️
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Posted on : Oct 28, 2017
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Commented on Nov 6, 2017
LiddleKitten, it's my husband that I'm submitting to and not a stranger! I'm married to him and I feel no shame whatsoever to be submissive to Him in His presence.
My husband being a commercial pilot gets to be home just a week each month while he's away rest of the month. With us getting such little time to spend together, we spend living our life within home doing what we love and what has helped our relationship so well.
As for my kids we are both responsible parents to keep things discreet from our children.
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Commented on Nov 1, 2017
Very philosophical and very deep thoughts about female submission.
Do not get annoyed by the comment from @LiddleKitten. She is headed for a very different perspective that is absolutely legitimate in her own right.
But your aim is quite different and legitimate as well.
So great to see you persevere in your submissive mission. It's really great when you overcome distractions and inner refusal. Submission can be a constant state of mind, and it can be beautiful and enjoyable.
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Commented on Oct 31, 2017
Excuse me, but what the fuck kind of ridiculous charade of a marriage do you think you're pulling out of your ass here???
The sexual fantasy scenario of Dom/Sub is supposed to be exactly that. . . a FANTASY. The Dom/Sub fantasy scenario is really nothing more than an exaggeration of the normal Male/Female gender dynamic played up for the purpose of arousal. We are meant to be our husband's Partner, not slave, not servant or lap dog. Sexual fantasy scenarios are supposed to last as long as the erotic encounter does, not all fucking day Long! In music, we sometimes play quietly, sometimes loudly. If we played loudly all the time our ears would bleed. Quietly all the time and we would be lulled to sleep. These are dynamics, not constants. Submissiveness is a device we use to create arousal for ourselves and our partner. It is a technique and a game. . . and is supposed to be fun, not a constant mode, nor a chore.
Real people do not live real lives in this fashion. . .not for long anyways. I noticed you made no mention of children. Gee. . . why does that not surprise me? Either this story is nothing but another work of fiction being passed off as factual, or you will soon find this 'marriage' run aground on the rocks of unrealistic expectations. I think you both need to grow up and gain some perspective.
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Commented on Oct 30, 2017
Thank you everyone for the lovely compliments
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Commented on Oct 30, 2017
Very interesting and well written.
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Commented on Oct 30, 2017
Sounds like the perfect relationship your a lucky couple
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Commented on Oct 28, 2017
Your husband is very lucky to have you!
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