I received this email 9 days ago from a non-Imagefapper who wrote to me at the email address on my profile page. We have since exchanged emails and I must say I find this person to be quite fascinating.

Personal information has been edited by me for anonymity.

'I saw your interests at imagefap and we seem to have some similarities in our fetish interests.

I read your profile and I'm saying hello far more for you as a person and nothing really more. I wouldn't call me a wanna be fan, but then I'm not really the "fan" type. You can answer this and discuss things with me if you like. But if you don't, know that I am enjoying a lot of the photos you posted.

I am 35, married five years, male, and I live in XXX.

Here are some things that may touch on your interests:

Because of a girlfriend before my wife, I became turned on by humiliation. She enjoyed both sides of it, humiliating others and being humiliated. Sometimes her game play entered the real world with other people being a part of her play though without their expecting they would be. I was once humiliated by her in front of a girlfriend of hers for her own entertainment. After a while I became turned on by my own humiliation and the thought of others, men and women, being humiliated. I have fantasies of my wife's humiliation. Outside of my brother and I secretly trading voyeur-ing our wives during sex, I have never for real humiliated my wife except for my candaulism, though this is consensual on her part.

When I was 20 - 22, I had an "affair" (poor choice of words) with my step sister, who was 18 - 20. You seem to enjoy incest, so I brought this up.

My candaulism is at the center of how I play sexually. My wife accepts it and will play with me along these lines as long as we: 1) go to a place far from where we live; 2) there are plenty of M/F couples and not just guys looking at her; 3) no one has a camera. For this reason - and for something else that falls into your thoughts - we go to XXX in XXX. It is half an hour from XXX. At the pool areas - there are three pools - one is "forced" to be on display for several seconds, owing to the nature of how one enters and exits the hot tub and pools and shower areas. You must be nude by rule, and the rails and areas one walks around leaves you with your arms by your sides and totally nude before everyone around you. So I am turned on while XXX is for a moment a centerfold before the world. She sort of hates it, which turns me on like crazy. There are certain memories of her watching men watch her that are in my spank bank. Naturally, no one gawks at others; doing so would result in your being kicked out of the resort. But eye contact is normal. I also reflect on my own humiliation as I am also on display and am not hung and everyone gets to see this about me. I am not micro in any way and the shape and look of my penis is perfect. It's just that I'm 6'2", and 2 1/2" flaccid and 4 3/8" hard. Total humiliation. It's my girlfriend before my wife who humiliated me and allowed me to humiliate her which got me hooked on this. I am not in any way a cuck or sissy, but am simply humiliated by my not being hung.

You have a series of photos or you are interested in something hardly no one mentions as a "thing", but I am totally into. A place like XXX or XXX are perfect for this: Seeing a woman and man nude at the same time. Did you call it "cunt and cock"? Hahahaha. I never heard of that. It's a total turn on to me, knowing what people look like when they fuck.

I think a lot of things about me along these lines are helped by the fact that I always had women who are better looking than I am. I really didn't have any game, either. What's attracted women to me is that I'm generally a kind person and helpful and solve people's problems with things related to their homes or properties. I can fix a lot of things and can have a conversation and listen to others. That is "my game".

When it comes to my wife, she knows and accepts all of my candaulism, but she doesn't know my humiliation fetish. I would love to see a more dominating woman pick a catfight with her and tear off her dress at a party, that sort of thing. I have similar fear-fantasies related to my own humiliation.

The most wrongful thing I've ever done is when I was 22, I took a shower with one of my girlfriend's 12th grade students. My girlfriend was a teacher's aide then. I didn't think it wrong at the time, but now I suppose I have to think it was. I have rationalized it.

I love your family photos and secretly enjoy as I watch the occasional family at XXX. About one family a day shows up to the indoor pool area. It's very erotic to me. Though if you were with me in the hot tub, you wouldn't know I was surreptitiously checking them out. Well, maybe YOU would. LOL.

So that's me and my attraction to some of what you've put up. Feel free to write to me about this. I suppose the reasons for my writing to you is to share with you my first events that formed my fetishes similar to yours, and what I did and how I responded to it. I'd love to read about yours and how you got in your mind to where you are today.

Yours, XXX'