"I just have to say that a man who pays attention to a woman, to her needs, to what she likes, and is persistant will, more often than not, get what he's after. I spent the summer in an apartment in Rome right across from this overbearing 40 yo brittish ex-patriot lawyer. He was, by all measures, a total asshole except in how he treated and spoke to me. He was confidant, opinionated, and direct. He went so far as to invite me over to stay the night several times, which I turned down off the cuff. He left me flowers. He left me notes. He took me to dinner. And, sure enough, I found myself letting myself into his unlocked pad one tuesday night at midnight. He'd left it unlocked. He saw me enter and poured a second glass of wine. Things worked out. Multiple MULTIPLE times!" -Lizzzz