I have had a number of fans e-mail me a wide variety of questions. I thought it would be neat to answer some of these in my blog. Kind of makes me feel a bit like a bratty celebrity being interviewed. Now please keep in mind that I have been sexually active for over eleven years now; so even though I’ve managed to do some really great stuff, understand that most of this here represents my best moments. Honestly, even though I’m highly sexual, most of my days and acts of sex are “normal”. Most times I’ve had sex in a bedroom, most times I simply masturbate with my fingers or vibrator, and most days I’m not flashing the world (although I do like to think I dress sexy most days). But as I went through these questions I realized they ended up representing, for the most part, my best of my best. Enjoy.

Q: How many sexual partners have you had?

A: Women, that’s easy; eight. Although I’m currently just busting my ass trying to seduce my friend Julianna, but she just laughs off all my flirting and stays straight. And these are the eight that I have had oral sex with; there have been a few others that I have made out with at parties and bars, but nothing serious. Men, the number is a bit more difficult to nail down (pun intended), but I think it’s around thirty five. Keep in mind I was sexually active from an early age, so it’s not like I simply jump any guy that hits on me (though I have had a few one-night stands, but I’ve always called the shots in these). Think about it, this averages less than one girl a year and around three men; nothing over the top in that at all.

Q: Have you ever been in love?

A: Yes, three times actually. And I mean true love; that heart-wrenching, soul-filling, life-altering sense when you are intimately connected to an amazing soul-mate. Claire, my current girlfriend, and I are truly in love with each other. I had also fallen in love with my very first girlfriend, Sophie. But her family moved away and we just couldn’t hold our relationship together even as much as we tried. It eventually faded and fizzled more than ended. And my third love was Chris. He was great and we were awesome together. But that one ended badly; even as much as he tried he just couldn’t accept my flirtatious and promiscuous nature. I understood and even forgave him when he dumped me, but by god did it hurt like hell.

Q: Do you have an ideal dream guy?

A: I just melt (certainly get wet) for the alpha-males. Give me great buffed pecs and solid biceps and I’ll be on me knees in a heartbeat (and mouth opened). You know the old saying; tall, dark and handsome, just make sure that they can easily lift me up and impale me onto their shaft. And yeah, I seem to be a sucker for jerks too, go figure. Recently however I started to get more into the refined, stylish kind of gentleman, though finding these at a university are as rare as virgins in a sorority. So if you want me to jump your bones, be handsome, have a buff rugby body presented in a great suit, and be dashing and suave (oh, and why not be rich also). I guess my dream guy would be Daniel Craig’s James Bond in Casino Royale.

Q: When did you lose your virginity?

A: Even for me, this is an interesting story. I was twelve. My best friend and I had gone to summer camp. She convinced me to sneak off and go skinny dipping with her. We were caught by a camp counsellor. The negotiations for the return of our clothes progressively got more and more out of hand. My best friend watched it all. (I ended up having sex with him another three times that week; twice in the woods and once in an empty cabin. And so my favourite pastime began.)

Q: What’s your favourite sex position?

A: Impossible, simply impossible to answer; I love them all for all different reasons. Even the classic missionary position has its place when I want a more intimate slow loving embrace. When I need to burn off some serious energy nothing like cowgirl position to get the blood pumping. My submissive side loves doggie style where I can bury my face in the pillows as the man relentlessly rides me from behind. Up against the wall for some passionate love making. Standing taking it from behind in the shower. Bend over a tree stump in the woods. Some Karma Sutra positions to add spice. Oh, god is there really such a thing as a bad position? Love them, love them all. But perhaps I do have a favourite because of its rarity; being spit-roasted. Its rare (even for me) because it takes two guys with me bent over between them; one grabs my hips and rides me from behind while the other I take in my mouth as he locks his hands behind my head. If they have good rhythm they stand still and simply rock me back and forth; as one withdraws the other impales. Awesome. And it only gets better if it happens to be in the woods/outside and with my hands cuffed/bound behind my back.

Q: Do you always keep your pussy shaved?

A: I hate the idea of pubic hair on a girl; always kept mine shaved from day one. Two years ago I finished having electrolysis done (also to my armpits and legs), so I no longer will ever have hair grow down there; just beautifully smooth for the rest of my life. And for any other ladies interested, electrolysis, although a longer process, is much more effective and permanent than laser hair removal. (Also, I feel guys are meant to be rough muscular alpha males so hair is needed on them, but girls are the delicate beauties counter to their beast.)

Q: Your collar in your profile pic looks so hot, is it real?

A: Yes, it’s a quarter-inch titanium slave collar; just absolutely beautiful. It’s two solid pieces joined on the underside by a flush rivet hinge, damn near seamless and impossible to see, and the other ends overlap and join on the underside with a small allen-key screw. The hole for the screw is very hard to spot and so for the most part the collar looks like one solid fused ring, and once locked in place it is strong as hell. Nowadays I almost never take it off and so have seriously thought about soldering the screw hole permanently smooth, however I do need it off occasionally for such things as free roll at MMA so I probably won’t. For most people it typically passes as just jewellery, but it does get more noticed in yoga class, at the gym or with my bikini at the beach. In addition to being able to attach such things as a leash for play, I do have a butterfly pendant that attaches to it when I need to dress it up more formally. And the allen screw is a specialty fitting head and Claire keeps the key, so I need permission anytime I might want it off.

Please dream of me,

Stacy