I very much want to be able to dedicate my life, and career, to sex. Sexuality is so amazing and I want every part of my life to revolve around it. Currently I’m in my third year of a four year undergrad doing a double-major in psychology and chemistry, after having taken a gap year between high school and post-secondary. Now, I know there is not a lot in terms of sexuality in my current university education so far, but it’s what I want to do with it that I think is pretty awesome to say the least.

When I’m done my undergrad I want to do my PhD in psychology. I want my dissertation to focus on a clinical study something along the lines of “the examination of bio-chemical feedback pathways relating to hormone release and mood alteration.” What does that mean? I want my doctoral work to study the effects of aphrodisiacs on women. Now I know; there are no ‘real’ truly powerful aphrodisiacs out there for the human body – there have certainly been enough randy men throughout the ages that would have found them by now. Instead, I want to explore the truths to such urban legends as peanuts and oysters making you horny. There is naturally something behind this – every bit of food we digest can affect our biochemistry and hence possibly set our randy mood, and some must do just that. Now the point is to discover those foods and combinations and to measure their effect levels. At the end of four years I will obviously not have discovered a ‘magic bullet’ aphrodisiac, but instead I hope to have a detailed study of a nutritional diet that promotes the greatest sexual arousal in women. And you better believe I would follow such a diet religiously.

Then after my PhD I wish to begin my career as a registered psychologist. And my practice will specialize in counselling individuals and couples in areas of sexuality. Yes, I want to become a sex therapist. I’m not going to treat sexual addictions – that’s just stupid. Instead, I can envision most of my work being focused on helping partners overcome relationship issues by the promotion of their sexual intimacy and lifestyle. It would be just incredible that I could have a lifetime career of getting paid very good money to talk about and encourage sexual practices in others. What in the world could be better than that?

I would also love to be able, on the side, to train and become a registered clinical hypnotist. Although my submissive personality just loves being the subject/target of hypnosis, for my psychology practice it would be extremely valuable to be able to hypnotise, say, a prudish wife and bring out her sexual animal. That would be quite an addition to an already rewarding sounding profession.

And then my career can also provide a major avenue for the exhibitionist in me. I know this would be years down the road, but in my mind I have already laid out the perfect office space arrangement. You see, as a registered psychologist I would be well dressed and presented in professional skirts, but of course I hate wearing panties. My chair would be perfect in its alignment so that any client sitting on my couch would have a wonderful vantage point, and I would ensure a lamp or natural light came from behind them for good frontal illumination. Now, so I don’t lose my practice I need to make certain that this all appears completely accidental. I will take all my notes directly on a laptop computer rather than a paper notepad (which also makes sense from a business perspective). When the laptop sits on my lap, my legs must be level and slightly apart to balance it. Presto, the perfect ongoing voyeur (actually exhibitionist) opportunity. I’m sure my clients will keep coming back long after I’ve helped them through their issues.

And the final stage that I dream of for my future career is to be able to, on the side, own and operate an adult sex store. Not some trashy dive where only greasy men in trench coats go, but instead a very classy and welcoming establishment. Psychologists make really good money and I would have no problem investing most of my revenues into the start-up for this store. My store would sell entire lines of books and erotic material, diverse high quality lingerie, and an extensive line of sex toys and all the play stuff anyone would need for a fulfilling sex life. And of course there would be no conflict of interest in me directing my clients to this store to stock up on resources for their fledging sexual delights.

And not only would I get paid for all this, but people would actually thank me for all the help I have given them. I know all this is much more fantasy than reality at this point, but I really do hope, and plan, that my career does go down these roads. I really can’t graduate soon enough.

Please dream of me,

Stacy